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The Gift of Fear

Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence
By Gavin de Becker
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The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker is a compelling self-help book that delves into the importance of trusting one's instincts to stay safe in threatening situations. The author, an expert in security, provides insights into how our intuition can act as an early warning system against violence and danger.
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This book may appeal to you if you are interested in understanding how to trust your intuition to recognise and avoid danger. It provides insights into human behaviour, empowering you to make safer choices and act confidently in threatening situations.

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Written by the man Oprah Winfrey calls the US' leading expert on violent behaviour, this work shows you how to spot even subtle signs of danger - before it's too late. It offers specific ways to protect yourself and those you love, including: how to act when approached by a stranger; and when you should fear someone close to you.

'De Becker has a lot to say about crime and fear of crime, and he says it persuasively in THE GIFT OF FEAR. His blend of empathy, reassurance and common sense wows readers, just like it wowed the audience on Oprah' NEWSWEEK 'A modern-day survival manual for everyone in our society...This book contains wisdom that transcends traditional approaches to violence' Robert Ressler, FBI Behavioural Scientist 'A thorough and compassionate primer for people concerned about their safety and the safety of their families. This book not only empowers the reader, but also captures your attention and doesn't let go until the end' Meryl Streep

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The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker is a compelling and insightful examination of the human intuition and its role in predicting and preventing violence. Drawing from his extensive experience as a leading authority on violent behaviour, de Becker provides gripping real-life scenarios and practical advice for recognising and responding to threats. This captivating narrative demystifies the subtle signals that often precede dangerous situations, allowing readers to harness the power of their instincts to safeguard themselves and their loved ones.

De Becker shatters the myth that violent acts are unpredictable and instead argues that they are often preceded by warning signs, which can be detected and understood. With a combination of psychological insights and expert analysis, he outlines specific strategies for recognising these indicators and responding effectively. Readers will learn how to interact safely with strangers, assess potentially harmful relationships, and take action if they are being stalked or threatened.

One of the core focuses of the book is understanding the most common mistakes people make when dealing with threatening individuals and how to avoid them. De Becker guides readers on how to interpret anonymous threats or menacing phone calls, offering practical tips on dealing with such unnerving situations. His approach empowers readers to trust their instincts and make informed decisions to prevent harm.

Oprah Winfrey has called Gavin de Becker the US's leading expert on violent behaviour, and with good reason. The Gift of Fear is not just a guide to personal safety; it's a revelation about the human capacity to sense danger and act upon it. This book is an indispensable resource for anyone looking to enhance their awareness and respond to potential threats with confidence and clarity.

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The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker is praised for its thrilling and provocative narrative that empowers readers, according to The Boston Globe. Newsweek highlights the author’s persuasive discussions on crime and fear, noting his empathetic and reassuring tone. Jeffrey Toobin describes the book as chilling and fascinating, while Linda A. Fairstein finds it important and provocative.

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ISBN: 9780747538356

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 July 2000

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Edition: New edition

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 21.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 289g

Pages: 352

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Education & Reference Gavin de Becker Mindset & Self Help New Year, New You Non-Fiction Self-Help & Personal Development

About the Author

Gavin de Becker is internationally regarded as a leading expert on the prediction and management of violence. In 1985, de Becker received a special award from the US Attorney General and the director of the FBI in recognition of his work in threat assessment. He is also the author of more than forty articles and white papers, co-author of CONFIDENTIAL REPORT TO MANAGEMENT: UNDERSTANDING AND PREVENTING WORKPLACE VIOLENCE and the contributing-author of STALKED.

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