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Protecting the Gift

Keeping Children and Teenagers Safe (and Parents Sane)
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Protecting the Gift by Gavin de Becker is an essential guide for parents navigating the complex challenges of keeping children safe. Drawing on his expertise in predicting violent behaviour, de Becker offers practical strategies for safety at every ageβ€”covering topics such as spotting warning signs of sexual abuse, choosing trustworthy baby-sitters, ensuring school safety, and preparing teenagers to avoid violence. This compassionate and empowering book dispels common myths about danger, helping parents confidently grant freedom without constant worry.
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Format: Paperback / softback
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This book is ideal for parents, guardians, child-care professionals, and anyone responsible for the safety and upbringing of children. It is particularly valuable for those seeking clear, practical tools to navigate the realities of modern child safety.

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An authority on human violence shares advice on how parents can protect their children from being victimized, explains how to minimize danger, and discusses such topics as school safety, teenage dating, and firearms.

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Safety skills for children outside the home

Warning signs of sexual abuse

How to screen baby-sitters and choose schools

Strategies for keeping teenagers safe from violence

All parents face the same challenges when it comes to their children's safety: whom to trust, whom to distrust, what to believe, what to doubt, what to fear, and what not to fear. In this empowering book, Protecting the Gift, Gavin de Becker, the nation's leading expert on predicting violent behaviour and author of the monumental bestseller The Gift of Fear, offers practical new steps to enhance children's safety at every age level. He provides you with the tools you need to allow your kids freedom without losing sleep yourself. With daring and compassion, he shatters the widely held myths about danger and safety and helps parents find some certainty about life's highest-stakes questions:

How can I know a baby-sitter won't turn out to be someone who harms my child? (see page 103)

What should I ask child-care professionals when I interview them? (see page 137)

What's the best way to prepare my child for walking to school alone? (see page 91)

How can my child be safer at school? (see page 175)

How can I spot sexual predators? (see page 148)

What should I do if my child is lost in public? (see page 86)

How can I teach my child about risk without causing too much fear? (see page 98)

What must my teenage daughter know in order to be safe? (see page 191)

What must my teenage son know in order to be safe? (see page 218)

And finally, in the face of all these questions, how can I reduce the worrying? (see page 56)

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Praised as a brilliant and dynamic resource, Protecting the Gift has earned acclaim from child advocates like Ken Wooden, FBI behavioural scientist Robert Ressler, and Publishers Weekly. Reviewers highlight its practical advice, life-saving guidance, and engaging style, recommending it as a must-read for anyone caring for children in today’s world.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780440509004

Publisher: Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 09 May 2000

Country: United States

Imprint: Bantam Doubleday Dell Publishing Group

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 24.0mm

Width: 156.0mm

Height: 235.0mm

Weight: 386g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Gavin de Becker is a three-time presidential appointee whose pioneering work has changed the way our government evaluates threats to our nation’s highest officials. His firm advises many of the world’s most prominent media figures, corporations, and law enforcement agencies on predicting violence, and it also serves regular citizens who are victims of domestic abuse and stalking. De Becker has advised the prosecution on major cases, including the O.J. Simpson murder trial. He has testified before many legislative bodies and has successfully proposed new laws to help manage violence.

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