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Wanna F*ck?

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Following our desires and sharing pleasure sounds easy, right? Yet, our sexualities are conditioned by expectations, prejudices, and taboos that make it difficult to listen to our own bodies, let alone anyone elseโ€™s. Bel Olid clears away the taboos and invites readers to explore pathways to... Read More
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Following our desires and sharing pleasure sounds easy, right? Yet, our sexualities are conditioned by expectations, prejudices, and taboos that make it difficult to listen to our own bodies, let alone anyone elseโ€™s.

Bel Olid clears away the taboos and invites readers to explore pathways to more connected sexualities and more pleasurable relationships. Because perhaps the first thing we need to learn about sex is to unlearn.

Unlearn the desire weโ€™ve been taught we must feel, unlearn the shame. Forget the bodies that weโ€™ve been obliged to like, forget the behaviour presented as the only type possible. Then, with fresh eyes, look deep inside and ask ourselves what we want, what we like, what we feel like discovering.

Listening to our desire and listening to the other person too. Daring ourselves to doubt, explore, make mistakes, stop at any time. Letโ€™s step into the ocean of possibilities.

Wanna F*ck? encourages a journey of self-discovery and unlearning, advocating for truly authentic and pleasurable relationships.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781509564767

Publisher: John Wiley and Sons Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 30 May 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Polity Press

Contributors:

  • Translated by Laura McGloughlin

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 15.0mm

Width: 137.0mm

Height: 201.0mm

Weight: 204g

Pages: 132

About the Author

Bel Olidย is a Catalan writer and translator who stopped trying to be the woman the world demands and started trying just...to be.

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