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Why Is My Child in Charge?

A Roadmap to End Power Struggles, Increase Cooperation, and Find Joy in Parenting Young Children
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Why Is My Child in Charge? by Claire Lerner offers parents eight essential mindshifts to address toddler challenges with clarity, calmness, and self-control. Through real-life stories, Lerner guides parents to understand the root causes of behaviours such as tantrums, bedtime delays, mealtime refusals, and potty training resistance. The book provides a personalised roadmap to create effective action plans tailored to each child's unique needs, helping parents develop practical strategies that nurture happy, adaptable children and foster calm, connected relationships.
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Why Is My Child in Charge? is ideal for parents of toddlers and young children seeking calm, practical solutions to common behavioural challenges. It also benefits caregivers and professionals in early childhood development looking for compassionate, experience-based parenting strategies.

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Through stories of her work with families, the author shows parents how making critical mindshifts--seeing their children's behaviors through a new lens"--empowers them to solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. Claire Lerner offers a roadmap for implementing practical and proven solutions that are based in science and work in real life.

Tame your toddler with seven key shifts in mindset that will help you parent with clarity, calmness, and self-control

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Solve toddler challenges with eight key mindshifts that will help you parent with clarity, calmness, and self-control.

In Why Is My Child in Charge?, Claire Lerner shows how making critical mindshifts—seeing children’s behaviours through a new lens—empowers parents to solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. Using real life stories, Lerner unpacks the individualised process she guides parents through to settle common challenges, such as throwing tantrums in public, delaying bedtime for hours, refusing to participate in family mealtimes, and resisting potty training.

Lerner then provides readers with a roadmap for how to recognise the root cause of their child’s behaviour and how to create and implement an action plan tailored to the unique needs of each child and family.

Why Is My Child in Charge? is like having a child development specialist in your home. It shows how parents can develop proven, practical strategies that translate into adaptable, happy kids and calm, connected, in-control parents.

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This book is a straightforward, practical resource for parents navigating young children’s behaviours. Drawing on the author's professional experience, it offers valuable advice for managing tantrums, aggression, sleep issues, potty training, and mealtimes. Highly recommended for new parents and library collections, the guide is compassionate and strategy-rich, focusing on actionable approaches rather than just theory. Parents and professionals alike will appreciate its relatable stories and effective tips for teaching and setting limits.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781538149003

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing Plc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 02 September 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Rowman & Littlefield

Illustration: 1 textbox

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Tovah P. Klein

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 151.0mm

Height: 226.0mm

Weight: 422g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Claire Lerner, MSW, is a licensed clinical social worker and child development specialist. She served as the Director of Parenting Resources at ZERO TO THREE for more than 18 years. Claire has also been a practicing clinician for 33 years, partnering with parents to do the detective work of decoding their children’s behavior to solve their most vexing childrearing challenges. Claire is the author of hundreds of parenting resources and writes a column for PBS Kids. She lives in Bethesda, Maryland.

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