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Unconditional Parenting

Moving from Rewards and Punishments to Love and Reason
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Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn is an insightful book that challenges conventional parenting methods, advocating for an approach centred on unconditional love and acceptance. The author argues that traditional reward-and-punishment tactics are less effective than fostering intrinsic motivation and emotional growth in children. By prioritising a child's individual needs and feelings, the book underscores a compassionate approach to nurturing well-rounded and self-assured individuals.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in exploring a parenting approach that focuses on unconditional love and raising children without relying on rewards and punishments. It offers thought-provoking insights into nurturing a child's self-esteem and promoting intrinsic motivation.

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Unconditional Parenting

Challenges the conventional wisdom of raising children. This book expands upon the theme of what's wrong with our society's emphasis on punishments and rewards with regards raising children. It insists that "controlling parents" are actually conveying to their kids that they love them conditionally, that is, only when they achieve or behave.

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The author of Punished by Rewards and The Schools Our Children Deserve returns with a provocative challenge to the conventional ways of raising children. Kohn argues that all children have the need to be loved unconditionally, yet conventional approaches to parenting, such as punishment and reward, teach children that they are loved only when they please and impress parents.

Kohn cites powerful research detailing the damage this can cause. Unconditional Parenting pushes parents to question their ideas of parenting and offers practical solutions to problems.

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Unconditional Parenting by Alfie Kohn is praised for offering an alternative to conventional parenting techniques. It provides a deep, insightful exploration of raising children with love and confidence, aiming to shift parental perspectives rather than prescribing simple rules.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780743487481

Publisher: Atria Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 May 2018

Country: United States

Imprint: Atria Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 15.0mm

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 214.0mm

Weight: 204g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Alfie Kohn is the author of nine previous books that have helped shape the thinking of parents. He has also appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show and Today. He lives in Boston.

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