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Then There Was Her by Sophie Cachia is a candid memoir that explores the author's journey of self-discovery and personal transformation. The book delves into her experiences with love, identity, and societal expectations, sharing her challenges and triumphs in navigating life's complexities. It's a heartfelt narrative about embracing change and pursuing authenticity.
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Social media and business entrepreneur Sophie Cachia reveals never-before-shared details of her marriage breakdown, and how delving into her feminine intuition and falling in love with a woman turned her whole world upside down.

I was running late, again. The sweat from under my milk-filled udders ran down my stomach and onto the post-natal recovery shorts I’d squeezed on under my leather skirt. Only eight weeks earlier, I’d birthed my second baby, and this was one of my first work appearances.

I raced into the hotel, took the lift to the wrong floor, fumbled my bag and finally landed at the entrance. I went around the circle of unfamiliar faces, smiling, shaking hands, introducing myself…

Then there was her.

As our hands touched, time froze. My whole world changed forever…

Sophie Cachia had her white picket fence life. By the age of 25, she was a mother and happily married, and had also built a very successful business by documenting her every move online.

But Sophie and her comfortable existence were thrown a curveball when she met a woman who prompted her to ask herself the questions: What more can I do? What more can I learn? What more can I be?

In Then There Was Her, Sophie describes how challenging the set social narrative for a young woman led her down a path of awareness, empowerment and acceptance as she navigated identity, sensuality and the true meaning of authenticity as a mother and a woman.

A deeply honest and inspirational memoir of a strong female who made peace with her decisions all in the unrelenting glare of the public eye, Then There Was Her encourages readers to stop fearing the unknown in life and to instead be excited about what may just come your way.

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ISBN: 9781761103193

Publisher: Simon & Schuster Australia

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 04 May 2022

Country: Australia

Imprint: Simon & Schuster Australia

DIMENSIONS

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 336

About the Author

Mother of two and bestselling author Sophie Cachia is the co-founder of companies CACHIA and AISURU and a prominent presenter, businesswoman and entrepreneur. Instagram @sophiecachia.

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