The History of My Sexuality

Meet Sofie—a young woman navigating the convoluted path of her sexuality. The history begins with her losing her virginity to Walter, a recruitment consultant, leading her to believe that things could only get better from there. However, Sofie quickly learns that her journey is far from straightforward.

Sofie is mistaken about countless things: first, she assumes she is attracted to men, then pivots upon meeting Frida, thinking she has finally found her place. Yet again, she is wrong. Little does she know, coming to terms with her true self will involve numerous trials and errors, every misstep unearthing more questions than answers. Can Sofie ever untangle the complex web of sex, love, loneliness, family relationships, and grief that is her life? Does achieving clarity even matter in the grand scheme of things?

The History of My Sexuality is a candid and humorous exploration of the rollercoaster ride that is your twenties. Tobi Lakmaker invites readers into Sofie's world—a world filled with vibrant highs and crushing lows. This exuberant narrative celebrates the beauty of imperfections and making peace with the inevitability of getting it wrong repeatedly. Through Sofie’s eyes, we experience the raw, unfiltered realities of self-discovery, and the endless process of redefining what we thought we knew about ourselves.

With a voice both relatable and refreshingly honest, Lakmaker delves into themes of identity, acceptance, and the often messy journey to understanding oneself. The History of My Sexuality promises to resonate deeply with anyone who has ever struggled to find their place in the world, providing not only laughs and tears but also a sense of camaraderie that you are not alone in your search for answers.