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So When Are You Having Kids

The Definitive Guide for Those Who Aren’t Sure If, When, or How They Want to Become Parents
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So When Are You Having Kids? by Jordan Davidson is a comprehensive and inclusive guide for anyone uncertain about parenthood. It addresses difficult questions like the financial impact of raising children, fertility challenges, societal pressures, and alternative paths to becoming a parent, including adoption and fostering. The book also thoughtfully considers what it means to choose a child-free life, examining ethical issues such as climate change. Combining extensive research with over 100 real-life stories, Davidson provides insight and empathy for women, men, gender-nonconforming people, same-sex couples, and single parents-to-be.
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This book is ideal for individuals and couples exploring the possibility of parenthood, including those facing fertility issues, people considering alternative family-building routes, and those contemplating a child-free life. It is also suitable for readers seeking an open, nonjudgmental perspective on this life-changing choice.

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The first family planning book geared toward the millennial and Gen Z generations, offering an inclusive guidebook for women, men, gender-nonconforming people, same-sex couples, and more.

As we expand our understanding of what "family" means, we need to change the way we think about having kids.

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How much does it cost to have kids? How long can I wait? What if I have fertility issues? And, wait a minute... do I even want kids? If you're unsure whether you want kids or struggling to decide, this book is for you.

So When Are You Having Kids? is not your parents' parenting book, nor is it a how-to for getting pregnant. It's a nonjudgmental, inclusive guidebook for women, men, gender-nonconforming people, same-sex couples, and prospective single parents who want to make an informed decision regarding if and how they bring children into the world. Combining research with over 100 compelling real-life stories, the resources in this book are as diverse as the generations they're meant to serve.

With deep insight and empathy, Davidson explores:

  • Ways to cope with familial and societal pressure to have children
  • What makes a good parent, and the skills you need to be one
  • The facts about infertility, adoption, fostering, and alternative methods of becoming a parent
  • The real financial costs of having and raising kids
  • How to move past fears related to pregnancy and childbirth
  • The ethics and consequences of having kids in the face of climate change
  • And, what it means to choose a child-free life for those who are unsure whether they want kids

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Library Journal calls it "an exhaustive resource to fill a void of books about parenthood decisions." Bookworm Sez praises Davidson's approach as thoughtful, candid, inclusive, and refreshingly non-judgmental. Ruby Warrington, bestselling author, highlights the book as essential for helping people consider their options confidently. Reviewers appreciate its depth and honesty in exploring all facets of the decision to have children or live child-free.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781683649250

Publisher: Sounds True Inc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 06 December 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Sounds True Inc

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 39.0mm

Width: 165.0mm

Height: 240.0mm

Weight: 587g

Pages: 368

About the Author

Jordan Davidson held editor positions at The Mighty and Everyday Health, Verywell, and Mount Sinai Health System. Her writing has appeared on outlets including BuzzFeed, Men's Health, Teen Vogue, Upworthy, Yahoo Health, Bustle, and Bitch magazine, and she's been interviewed on NBC Nightly News with Lester Holt. Jordan started Endo Warriors, an organization that provides support groups for people living with endometriosis. Jordan lives in New York.

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