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Love and Respect

The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs
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Love and Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs explores the concept that a successful marriage rests on the principles of unconditional love for the wife and unconditional respect for the husband. The book addresses typical issues couples face and offers guidance on how understanding these basic needs can lead to a healthier, happier relationship. It provides practical advice based on biblical teachings to improve communication and strengthen the marital bond.
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This book may appeal to you if you're interested in exploring how different communication styles can impact relationships, especially from the perspective of understanding and improving marriage dynamics. It offers insights on the importance of love for women and respect for men, providing practical advice for nurturing a balanced and fulfilling partnership. Ideal for readers seeking to strengthen their family bonds and enhance marital harmony.

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A wife has one driving need---to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy.Β A husband has one driving need---to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy.Β When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy.Β Love and RespectΒ reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal withΒ such conflict quickly, easily, and biblically.

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Come discover one of the greatest secrets to a successful relationship! Love & Respect is a New York Times best-selling marriage book making a difference, with over two million copies sold! It helps you and your spouse achieve a deeper level of intimacy by stopping the crazy cycle of conflict, developing better communication skills, and enjoying renewed passion.

Cracking the communication code between husband and wife involves understanding one thing: that unconditional respect is as powerful for him as unconditional love is for her. It's the secret to marriage that every couple seeks, and yet few couples ever find. While both men and women deserve both love and respect, in the midst of conflict the driving need for a woman is love, and the driving need for a man is respect. When either of these needs isn’t met, things get crazy.

Based on over three decades of counselling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Love and Respect is for anyone: those in marital crisis, the happily married, engaged couples, pastors and counsellors, and small groups. This dynamic and life-changing message is impacting the world, resulting in the healing and restoration of countless relationships.

In Love & Respect, couples can find:

  • How to break down the communication code between spouses
  • How to handle conflict in a relationship
  • How to build respect for one another
  • How to foster a deep love for one another
  • How to rekindle passion for one another

Taking God’s biblical practice of marriage and applying it with practical techniques, Emerson Eggerichs shows how mutual love and respect can balance a marriage and encourage a successful relationship.

Pair Love & Respect with the Love & Respect Workbook for Couples, Individuals, and Groups for an added experience and to dig deeper into your relationship and foster understanding with your partner. Love & Respect is also available in Spanish, Amor y Respeto.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781591452461

Publisher: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 29 September 2006

Country: United States

Imprint: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Edition: ITPE Edition

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 23.0mm

Width: 151.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 349g

Pages: 336

About the Author

Dr. Emerson Eggerichs, an internationally known expert on male-female relationships, presents the Love & Respect conference with his wife, Sarah, both live and by video to more than 50,000 people each year, including groups such as the NFL, PGA, and members of congress. With degrees from Wheaton College and Dubuque Seminary and a PhD from Michigan State, Emerson pastored Trinity Church in Lansing for 19 years. He and Sarah have been married since 1973 and have three children.

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