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Live, Laugh, Find True Love

A Step-by-Step Guide to Dating and Finding a Meaningful Relationship
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Live, Laugh, Find True Love offers practical dating advice from Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney with over twenty years' experience. Helping readers understand why relationships fail, the book identifies six key patterns, the "F-Words": Fundamental Values, Fear, Foundation, Fixing, Fairy Tale, and Family. Through self-reflection and introspection, it guides all individualsβ€”regardless of sexual orientation, gender, or backgroundβ€”in recognising and avoiding these pitfalls to find a meaningful and lasting relationship.
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Ideal for individuals navigating dating, divorce, or remarriage, this book suits readers of all sexual orientations and gender identities who want honest, experience-based guidance on building healthy, lasting partnerships.

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Practical dating advice from a divorce attorney.

Want to know the secret to finding a meaningful and long-lasting relationship? Who doesn't!

Whether you are divorced or looking to remarry, you have been in-and-out of failed relationships, you are uncertain about an existing relationship, or you are simply prepared to ditch the single life...

Whether you are gay, trans, nonbinary, straight...

Whatever your race, gender, religion or sexual identity or orientationβ€”this book is for you.

Most relationship guides are written by therapists who base their advice on success stories. This is not that book. This is not your average relationship book. This book emerged from failure and offers a unique and fresh perspective. (Think, "The Rime of the Ancient Mariner," except the albatross is Zsa Zsa Gabor).

Written by a divorce attorney with more than twenty years' experience, Live, Laugh, Find True Love works backwards, scrutinising and dissecting the reasons relationships go wrong, to help you find the right relationship.

In working with thousands of divorcing couples, author Sarah Intelligator has distilled several unmistakable patterns among failed relationships. She has reduced these patterns into six categories, "F-Words": Fundamental Values, Fear, Foundation, Fixing, Fairy Tale, and Family. This book will teach you to recognise and avoid these predictable patterns in your own search for a life partner, so that you may find a fulfilling and enduring relationship.

Throughout the course of this book, you will be guided on an introspective journey of deep self-reflection. You will come out the other side not only with a more solid understanding of what you want in a relationship, but how to go about finding a partner best suited for you, because you deserve to love and be loved in a healthy way.

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Praised by Dr Sarah Salzman, founder of the Couples Communication Institute, the book is valued for its accurate identification of common relationship patterns, providing readers with clear, sometimes challenging truths that can save years of emotional pain. Caitlin Crosby commends the book for its comforting and empowering advice that offers hope in the quest for love. It is recommended as essential reading for anyone seeking a committed relationship with eyes wide open.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781510776401

Publisher: Skyhorse Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 28 November 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: Sky Pony Press

Illustration: Illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 228.0mm

Weight: 212g

Pages: 224

About the Author

Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles. She earned a Juris Doctorate from Southwestern Law School. She graduated from UCLA, cum laude, with a bachelor of arts in English.Practicing family law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term, "Holistic Divorce and Family Law." In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realized that she could help them avoid divorce altogether. In her spare time, Sarah enjoys traveling and spending time with her son, Eli. She also dabbles in interior design.

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