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How to Have a Kid and a Life
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This book is ideal for mothers seeking to harmonise parenthood with personal fulfilment, including working and stay-at-home mums looking for practical advice on self-care, relationships, and career balance in a culture focused on children.
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Continue to have and grow your life, Mom. It's better for you and your kids.
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Continue to have and grow your life, Mum—for your sake and your kids'.
When did being a good mum come to mean giving up everything that used to make you you? That's the question millions of 21st-century mothers grapple with every single day as they parent in our madly kid-centric culture. Contrary to the incessant messaging from everywhere, committing to yourself and your own needs is what makes for a good mother and happy kids.
With How to Have a Kid and a Life, popular journalist and Good Morning America parenting expert Ericka Sóuter shares her tips for being a happy, whole person while still being a great, and sometimes just good enough (which is plenty fine), parent. Sóuter blends her own stories of surviving the seismic challenges of parenthood with testimonials from stay-at-home and working mums; interviews with therapists and researchers; and findings from the latest studies on happiness, self-care, and parenthood. What she delivers is a wonderfully irreverent survival guide to motherhood, featuring:
- Advice on keeping your career on track while parenting
- Tips for handling clueless and unhelpful partners
- Taking back ownership of your body
- Creating a reliable village of support (even with mums you didn't think you'd like)
- Staying connected with child-free friends
- What to do if you feel like you're missing the "mum gene"
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"Journalist Sôuter debuts with an encouraging guide for new mothers overwhelmed by cultural expectations," notes Publishers Weekly. Eve Rodsky, bestselling author of Fair Play, calls it "a brilliant book for any woman feeling alone or overwhelmed," highlighting its empowering message that no mother is alone. Dr Jennifer Ashton, MD, praises the book’s frank, relatable approach to balancing parenthood with personal identity, saying "I laughed, I cried, and I learned."
Book Details
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ISBN: 9781683644873
Publisher: Sounds True Inc
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 24 August 2021
Country: United States
Imprint: Sounds True Inc
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 21.0mm
Width: 138.0mm
Height: 205.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 240
About the Author
Ericka Sóuter is a parenting expert on Good Morning America. She writes for mom.com, CafeMom, and other sites that reach millions of parents monthly. She has written for Self, Cosmopolitan, Essence, and HuffPost and has been on staff at Us Weekly and People. She lives in Manhattan with her husband and two sons. For more, visit erickasouter.com.
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