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How to Choose a Partner

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How to Choose a Partner by Susan Quilliam explores the complex and evolving journey of finding the right romantic partner in today's world. The book looks beyond dating tactics to consider how personal growth, cultural influences, and psychological insights contribute to choosing a partner that fits our unique lives. Addressing contemporary challenges such as increased mobility, changing social norms, and demanding work schedules, Quilliam encourages readers to view partner choice as a path to greater self-understanding and authentic connection.
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Ideal for individuals seeking thoughtful advice on relationships and self-growth, as well as readers interested in modern social dynamics and the psychology of partnership.

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An insightful guide to choosing the partner who's right for you.

An insightful guide to choosing the partner who's right for you.

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Choosing a romantic partner is one of contemporary life's biggest adventures. But other aspects of modern living - being globally more mobile, a fall in religious belief, social liberalization and more job opportunities (but longer working hours) - mean meeting a mate has rarely been so challenging, and rarely so important. In How to Choose a Partner, Susan Quilliam guides us through the process of finding the right partner for us as individuals. The real challenge is that we grow. Drawing upon rich cultural material, psychology and her background in relationship therapy, Susan presents partner choice as a self-development journey, driving us to learn more about ourselves, about other people, about life and the way we want to live. PRAISE FOR THE SCHOOL OF LIFE SERIES "The School of Life is dedicated to making our lives clearer, less puzzling and more enjoyable - by studying the big themes of life with the help of culture. This new series of self-help books continues to reinvent the genre, making it into something more serious, profound and genuinely helpful." Alain de Botton

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Alain de Botton praises this guide as part of The School of Life series, highlighting its serious, profound, and genuinely helpful approach to navigating life's big themes with cultural and psychological depth.

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ISBN: 9781447293293

Publisher: Pan Macmillan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 January 2016

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Macmillan

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 11.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 177.0mm

Weight: 108g

Pages: 160

About the Author

Susan Quilliam is a relationship psychologist, coach and agony aunt. She is the author of twenty-one books and is a regular media expert on the subject of sex and relationships.

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