How to Be Dateable

Name: How to Be Dateable
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SKU: 9781668030424
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The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love

By Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

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Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love. As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast... Read More

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From the hosts of the award-winning podcast Dateable, a practical, compassionate guide to that help readers learn their unique dating style, break free from outdated dating rules, meet people with intention, and start falling in love.

Description

Does dating feel like an endless maze with no way out? Find your person with this actionable, compassionate guide that will help you break free from the traps of modern dating and change your approach to love.

As creators and hosts of the hit dating podcast Dateable, Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu have made breaking down the nuances of the ever-evolving dating world and empowering the people within it their purpose and passion. Drawing on a decade's worth of research from speaking to thousands of daters and world-renowned experts, Julie and Yue have learned what it takes to find love in today’s dating world. In How to Be Dateable, they'll show you how to take control of your love life and focus on the levers that actually get you results.

Starting with a personalised dating archetypes quiz, this book will give you a richer understanding of your core dating strengths and how to turn around the obstacles that are keeping you from meeting the right people. You will discover how to:

Feel more optimistic about finding love
Choose partners who are aligned with your values
Prioritise what’s in your control and release what’s not
Date your way to find the right relationship for you

Written with the knowledge of experts and the warmth of a wise best friend, How to Be Dateable will give you a dating life that can ultimately help you find the I-can’t-believe-this-was-possible type of relationship you deserve.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781668030424

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 27 February 2025

Country: United States

Imprint: Simon Element

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 33.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 490g

Pages: 336

Collections

Health & Wellness Julie Krafchick Mindset & Self Help New Year, New You Non-Fiction Parenting & Family Self-Help & Personal Development Yue Xu

About the Author

Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu are the cohosts and creators of Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by The New York Times, HuffPost, Oprah Daily, and more. They’re also the hosts and executive producers of the dating experiment show Exit Interview. Julie brings her background in human-centered design and qualitative research, while Yue shares her experience as a dating coach. Together you can find them at DateablePodcast.com and @DateablePodcast.

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