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Helping Children Learn About Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control

A Professional Guide
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This guidebook supports professionals in using the storybook Floss and the Boss to help young children understand domestic abuse and coercive control. It defines key terms, explores the impact on children and education, and offers page-by-page notes with discussion points. The book provides activities, safety planning strategies, and advice on fulfilling a key adult role, alongside a comprehensive list of helplines for adult victims. It is designed to facilitate important conversations with children about staying safe and emotional wellbeing.
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Ideal for teachers, social care staff, therapists, and professionals working with young children, especially those using the Floss and the Boss storybook. Suitable for primary education settings and anyone involved in safeguarding and supporting children experiencing or learning about domestic abuse and coercive control.

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This guide is designed to support professionals in the use of the storybook, Floss and the Boss, which was created to help young children understand about domestic abuse and coercive control. It puts the professional in a position to have important conversations with children about staying safe and their emotional wellbeing.

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This book is designed to support professionals with the sensitive and effective use of the storybook, Floss and the Boss, created to help young children understand about domestic abuse and coercive control.

By defining domestic abuse and coercive control and exploring the effects upon children and their education, this guidebook puts the professional in a position to have important conversations with children about what to do if something at home does not feel right. When used with the storybook, it provides a vehicle for talking to children about staying safe and their emotional wellbeing.

Key features of this book include:

  • Page-by-page notes, with discussion topics and points for conversation around the Floss and the Boss story
  • Activities for supporting children, safety planning strategies and guidance for taking on a key adult role
  • A comprehensive list of helplines and organisations in place to support adult victims of domestic abuse

This is a vital tool for teachers, social care staff, therapists and other professionals working with the Floss and the Boss story to teach young children about domestic abuse and coercive control.

Series: Floss and the Boss

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  • Floss and the Boss
    For effective and safe use, this book should be purchased alongside the professional guidebook. Both books can be purchased together as a set, Helping Children Learn About Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control: A Floss and the Boss Storybook and Professional Guide [9780367344511]. This beautifully illustrated and sensitively written storybook has been created to help young children understand about domestic abuse...
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  • Helping Children Learn About Domestic Abuse and Coercive Control
    This book is designed to support professionals with the sensitive and effective use of the storybook, Floss and the Boss, created to help young children understand about domestic abuse and coercive control. By defining domestic abuse and coercive control and exploring the effects upon children and their education, this guidebook puts the professional in a position to have important conversations...
    Paperback
    $4299
    Available
    Ships in 4-6 weeks

Book Hero Magic summarised reviews for this book. While it's new and still learning, it may not be perfect - your feedback is welcome! HOW HAS THIS BEEN REVIEWED?

Praised for its sensitive and powerful storytelling, Floss and the Boss is described as beautifully illustrated and suitable for young children on multiple levels. Experts commend its vitally important message and the excellent resources supporting professionals. Reviews highlight its value for primary-aged children and recommend it for classroom use to address healthy relationships and domestic abuse topics.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780367510817

Publisher: Taylor & Francis Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 August 2020

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Routledge

Illustration: 6 Line drawings, color; 6 Illustrations, color

Audience: General / adult, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Width: 210.0mm

Height: 297.0mm

Weight: 158g

Pages: 32

About the Author

Catherine Lawler works as a training consultant for a Safeguarding Children's Partnership. She has extensive experience of working with children, young people and families. She has worked as a children's therapist, specialising in domestic abuse. She has developed resources on bullying, peer-on-peer abuse and children accessing sexualised imagery.

Abigail Sterne is a senior educational psychologist working in schools in Manchester and is a former teacher. She works closely with Central Manchester Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS) and has worked with fostering and adoption services.

Catherine and Abigail are co-authors of Domestic Violence and Children: A Handbook for Schools and Early Years Settings (Routledge, 2010). They have developed domestic abuse and safeguarding training packages for education and social care services. They wrote and delivered initial training for key adults for Operation Encompass, whereby key trained adults in schools receive prompt police notifications about abusive incidents. For this they received Commander’s Certificates from Devon and Cornwall Constabulary.

Nicky Armstrong, B.A.(Hons) Theatre Design, M.A. Slade School of Fine Art, has illustrated 30 books which have been translated and published in seven countries. She has achieved major commissions in both mural and fine art painting.

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