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Gentle Guidance

An essential guide for raising resilient and happy children by the UK's leading child behavioural expert
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In Gentle Guidance, Marie Gentles offers a compassionate approach to parenting, focusing on emotional connection and resilience. Drawing on decades of experience, she introduces the FIVE CS framework—Communication, Calm, Curious, Connect, Convey—to help parents navigate challenging behaviour and strengthen relationships. Whether your child is fifteen months or fifteen years, this book provides practical tools to support their emotional needs and foster healthy growth.
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Become the parent you want to be, with this inspiring and essential guide for raising resilient and happy children by the UK's leading child behavioural expert, Marie Gentles OBE.

Become the parent you want to be, with this inspiring and essential guide for raising resilient and happy children by the UK's leading child behavioural expert, Marie Gentles OBE.

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AS SEEN ON BBC'S DON'T EXCLUDE ME AND HELPING OUR TEENS

'Such an important book, by someone who really understands the issues that young people face in today's world.'
Dr Zoe Williams

It's a tough time to be a parent. With pressures on time, energy, and resources, it's difficult to give your child everything they need emotionally, and even more so when you’re faced with defiance, disruption, or challenging behaviour. In Gentle Guidance, Marie Gentles draws on decades of expertise supporting families to give you the toolkit you need to be the best parent you can be.

From establishing positive relationships that bring out the best in your child, to applying the tools you learn as a framework for your wider relationships, whether it be with friends, colleagues, your boss, or even your inner child, this book will help you put Marie’s FIVE CS into practise when faced with any challenging moment:

Communication: behaviour is communicating a need for emotional connection.

Calm: this moment is a teaching and learning opportunity.

Curious: what feeling is the other person seeking?

Connect: how can I meet their emotional needs?

Convey: what does my behaviour look like in this moment from the other person’s perspective?

You don’t need to fit into a box with your parenting style—with Marie’s gentle guidance, you’ll be equipped to raise a resilient child who in turn has the tools they need to deal with anything life throws at them. Whether they are fifteen months or fifteen years, it's never too late to start.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781526658388

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 22 June 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 232.0mm

Weight: 419g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Marie Gentles OBE is one of the UK’s leading child behavioural experts. A former head teacher at a pupil referral unit she is a behaviour adviser to the Department for Education, an educational consultant, and parent. Founder of Magic Behaviour Management, she trains schools and family services in her bespoke method to set up positive foundations and practical ways to support children through disruptive times. She is the behavioural expert on BBC’s Don’t Exclude Me series.

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