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Fraying

Mum, memory loss, the medical maze, and me
By Michele Gierck
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Fraying by Michele Gierck is a poignant memoir that delves into the emotional journey of caring for a loved one with dementia. It explores themes of love, resilience, and change as the author navigates the challenges of her mother's illness. The narrative offers both intimate reflections and broader insights into the impact of illness on family dynamics.
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This book may appeal to you if you are drawn to poignant narratives that explore the challenges of caring for a loved one with dementia. Michele Gierck shares a deeply personal journey filled with resilience, love, and moments of humour, offering insight into the complexities and emotional landscapes of familial caregiving.

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Being a carer is not unlike being an interpreter. The task is to listen intently, to catch not only the words but the spirit of the message, and then to immediately pass that on. So too the carer, who is required to listen, to catch the spirit of what is needed, and then to set about to have those needs met.

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Being a carer is not unlike being an interpreter. The task is to listen intently, to catch not only the words but the spirit of the message, and then to immediately pass that on. So too the carer, who is required to listen, to catch the spirit of what is needed, and then to set about to have those needs met.

Fraying chronicles a mother's and a daughter's journey through memory loss and the medical maze. Michele Gierck finds herself suddenly thrust into the role of primary carer, with no map to navigate the world of aged care and medical bureaucracy.

The relationship between the spirited, determined 88-year-old protagonist who refuses to passively accept medical pronouncements and her daughter is at times difficult, yet always respectful and loving, warm and upbeat. Together they must develop practical coping strategies, draw on a lifetime with each other, and hold onto their sense of humour.

Authentic and evocative, Fraying will resonate with the tens of thousands of readers living through this experience themselves. Michele Gierck offers wisdom and very practical advice about two of the certainties of life: change and loss.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781742232331

Publisher: NewSouth Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 March 2015

Country: Australia

Imprint: NewSouth Publishing

Illustration: Illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 256

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About the Author

Michele Gierck is a writer, an inspiring speaker and an educator. Michele's books include 700 Days in El Salvador and Peter Kennedy: The Man Who Threatened Rome (co-authored with Martin Flanagan). Her work has featured in The Age, The Australian, Eureka Street and many other publications, and Michele has spoken on ABC radio programs across Australia. Passion, justice, community and human spirit are central to her writing, her public speaking and her life.

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