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Decoding Boys

New science behind the subtle art of raising sons
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Decoding Boys by Dr Cara Natterson is the definitive guide for parents raising tween and teenage boys. It addresses vital topics including relationships, social media, friendships, school challenges, and difficult subjects such as pornography, drugs, and video games. The book explores the physical, mental, emotional, and social transformations boys undergo during puberty, offering expert medical and developmental insights.

Dr Natterson emphasises the importance of improving communication with boys during this often turbulent stage and preparing them for adulthood with knowledge and empathy. This resource helps parents understand their sons’ inner lives and navigate the complexities of adolescence with clarity and wisdom.
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This book is an essential resource for parents, guardians, and caregivers of tween and teenage boys seeking to better understand and support them through adolescence’s challenges. It will also benefit professionals working with boys in educational or developmental contexts.

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This is the ultimate guide to raising the tween/teen boy in your life. It covers everything from relationships, social media, friendships and school, dealing with topics like porn, drugs and video games, as well as physical and mental changes.

Dr Natterson helps parents navigate the tricky stage of puberty - when loud, rambunctious boys often turn into silent, uncommunicative beings who slink behind closed doors. She argues that it's up to parents to improve their communication with their son and help him prepare for life as an adult, armed with the knowledge needed to become a well-rounded human being. This book looks at the dramatic shifts boys face physically, mentally, emotionally and socially, filtered through Dr Natterson's expert medical and child development lens.

Decoding Boys debunks the widespread myth of the inscrutable teenage boy. Dr. Cara Natterson illuminates boys' inner lives, details the pressures they face from the outside world, and teaches parents how to effectively engage and support their adolescent sons. Decoding Boys is clear, wise, and eye-opening. If you're raising a boy, you need this brilliant book.

- Lisa Damour, PhD, New York Times bestselling author of Untangled and Under Pressure

Decoding Boys is the ultimate guide to help you understand and raise your boys with acceptance and perspective. Reading it is like having an empathetic, really smart friend who totally gets what you are going through and is helpful every step of the way!

- Mallika Chopra, author of Living with Intent

Decoding Boys is the book we've been waiting for! Dr. Cara Natterson tackles the topics that are difficult for parents to understand, let alone discuss with their children. She demystifies the complex science of male puberty and delivers sound advice for any adult living with—and wanting to support—an increasingly silent teenage boy.

- Louise Greenspan, M.D., coauthor of The New Puberty, How to Navigate Early Development in Today's Girls

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529345490

Publisher: Hodder & Stoughton

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 18 February 2021

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Yellow Kite

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 179g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Cara Natterson is a paediatrician, consultant, and award-winning author. She grew up in Los Angeles, dreaming of helping others. After medical school and training to be a paediatrician, she returned to her hometown to work as a primary care doctor. Whilst there she learned first-hand how difficult it can be for parents to navigate all of the information (good and bad) thrust at them. That's when Cara started writing books. At first, she focused on medical issues, but over time her writing shifted to the most common fears and misconceptions about paediatric health. She has a 12-year old daughter and an 10-year old son. Publishing over seven books her parenting books include The Care and Keeping of You, a three-book series and Guy Stuff.

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