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Burn This Letter

Love and Trouble in a Marriage of Four
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A remarkable story. We must be grateful that the recipients ignored one another's frequent exhortations to set fire to the missives after reading... Pedersen is as interested in her heroines' social lives as she is in their political ambitions. And here is where the book earns... Read More
Format: Hardback
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The secret history of an aristocratic Edwardian husband swap - inside the family of the Prime Minister Arthur Balfour - set against a vivid backdrop of seances, politics and the birth of the supposed new Messiah. The long-awaited new book from prize-winning historian Susan Pedersen.

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A remarkable story. We must be grateful that the recipients ignored one another's frequent exhortations to set fire to the missives after reading... Pedersen is as interested in her heroines' social lives as she is in their political ambitions. And here is where the book earns its place on the history curriculum... Fascinating New Statesman

BURN THIS! Why did so many letters between Lady Frances and Lady Betty Balfour begin this way? What did they have to hide?

Alike in so many ways - political, passionate, argumentative, and deeply intelligent. It's no surprise that once Frances and Betty became sisters-in-law, they became close friends. There was just one problem. Frances was in love with Betty's husband. Their unconventional solution they found was an 'experiment in living', a ménage à quatre. Setting up homes on the same street, they shared everything: money, meals, governesses, and husbands.

When Susan Pedersen discovered their amazing cache of letters, she was spellbound.

We tend to see elite women of this era romantically - we wonder whom they will marry and track that marriage plot - but we don't always follow them into their marriages, as they struggle to live consequential lives. Marriage isn't the end of women's lives. It can be, as it was for Frances and Betty, the catalyst to political activism.

Her book follows their extraordinary friendship as both women seized every freedom afforded to them by the changing times, leaving their drawing rooms for the streets and the soapbox, joining the fight for the women's vote.

This is the untold story of two women - radicals, rivals, sisters - who carved a path together through an elite male world, sharing their ideals, their heartbreaks, and most of all, their secrets.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781399806220

Publisher: John Murray Press

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 21 May 2026

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: John Murray Publishers Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 34.0mm

Width: 158.0mm

Height: 236.0mm

Weight: 560g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Raised in Japan to Canadian missionary parents, Susan Pedersen was surprised to become a professor at Harvard and then Columbia universities, teaching British, European and international history. Her books have sought to explain how welfare states shape families, how international organizations handle empires, and how women come to challenge political inequality and domestic subjection. Her children now grown, she divides her time between London and New York. She writes regularly for the London Review of Books and is the author of several acclaimed books. Her most recent book The Guardians was awarded the 2015 Cundill Prize for Historical Literature.

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