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Bound by BDSM

Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life
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Why are BDSM practitioners so happy? It turns out, BDSM isn’t just about whips and chains. With engaging stories and a warm, conversational tone, Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life reveals how BDSM practitioners use clear boundaries, enthusiastic consent, open dialogue, and... Read More
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A masterclass anyone can use to enhance intimacy, create stronger relationships, and foster a genuine sense of belonging.

A masterclass anyone can use to enhance intimacy, create stronger relationships, and foster a genuine sense of belonging.

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Why are BDSM practitioners so happy? It turns out, BDSM isn’t just about whips and chains.

With engaging stories and a warm, conversational tone, Bound by BDSM: Unexpected Lessons for Building a Happier Life reveals how BDSM practitioners use clear boundaries, enthusiastic consent, open dialogue, and a strong community to create fulfilling relationships and build richer, more intentional lives. Drawing on research from the largest scientific study of BDSM ever conducted, Alicia Walker and Arielle Kuperberg demonstrate that the BDSM community’s approach to trust and vulnerability offers a valuable model for building intimacy and fostering authentic connections. BDSM also allows practitioners to exercise their creativity and break the mold—whether it comes to trying out new practices in the bedroom or bending ideas about gender.

Whether you’re vanilla, kinky, or just here for the life advice, this book—packed with humour and insight—is a refreshingly open-minded guide to building stronger relationships, deeper intimacy, and a more intentional approach to connection.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9798881803025

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing PLC

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 16 October 2025

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Bloomsbury Academic

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 16.0mm

Width: 158.0mm

Height: 232.0mm

Weight: 420g

Pages: 176

About the Author

Alicia M. Walker is an associate professor of sociology at Missouri State University and the author of The Secret Life of the Cheating Wife: Power, Pragmatism, and Pleasure in Women’s Infidelity and Chasing Masculinity: Men, Validation, and Infidelity. Her work has appeared in Redbook, CNN, New York Times, The Cut, Daily Mail, Bustle, Marie Claire, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Men’s Health, USA Today, Psychology Today, The Independent, The Sun, The Guardian, The Globe and Mail, The Sun, and Business Insider.
Arielle Kuperberg is an associate professor of sociology at the University of Maryland, Baltimore County. Her research has been widely discussed in hundreds of media articles all over the world, including the New York Times, Fortune, Cosmopolitan, Time Magazine, Fox News, NBC, NPR, and The Atlantic.

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