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The Secrets of Successful Friendships
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Few things promise as much potential happiness as friendship, yet the challenge of finding and maintaining meaningful connections remains one of life's great struggles. Drawing on psychology, philosophy and cultural history, The Secrets of Successful Friendships offers a thoughtful exploration of why friendship is both more...
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The second book in The School of Life's 'Secrets' series, offering lessons on the emotional skills necessary to build and maintain friendships
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Description
Few things promise as much potential happiness as friendship, yet the challenge of finding and maintaining meaningful connections remains one of life's great struggles.
Drawing on psychology, philosophy and cultural history, The Secrets of Successful Friendships offers a thoughtful exploration of why friendship is both more complex and more rewarding than we typically imagine. It examines why we get lonely, what holds us back from deeper connections, and how we might develop the emotional intelligence needed for lasting bonds.
With characteristic wisdom and warmth, the book explores different varieties of friendship, from casual acquaintances to profound lifelong connections, while offering practical insights into overcoming common obstacles like shyness, envy and fear of vulnerability.
By explaining friendship's true purpose, the book gives us a chance to build new relationships of genuine depth and meaning.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9781916753235
Publisher: The School of Life Press
Format: Hardback
Date Published: 04 September 2025
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: The School of Life Press
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Width: 125.0mm
Height: 180.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 168
About the Author
The School of Life is a global organisation helping people lead more fulfilled lives. Through our range of books, gifts and stationery, we aim to prompt more thoughtful natures and help everyone to find fulfilment.
The School of Life is a resource for exploring self-knowledge, relationships, work, socialising, finding calm and enjoying culture through content, community and conversation. You can find us online, in stores and in welcoming spaces around the world, offering classes, events and one-to-one therapy sessions.
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