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Raising Boys in the 21st Century

How to help our boys become open-hearted, kind and strong men
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Raising Boys in the 21st Century by Steve Biddulph discusses the unique challenges of raising boys in modern times. It provides practical advice on guiding boys through their developmental stages, focusing on emotional intelligence and nurturing growth into manhood. The book combines insights from psychology with real-life stories to offer a comprehensive guide for parents.
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You might like this book if you're seeking practical advice on parenting boys, including understanding their emotional and psychological development, and tips on nurturing their strengths and overcoming modern challenges. It's ideal for parents, educators, and anyone involved in raising boys.

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Raising Boys in the 21st Century by Steve Biddulph is an essential guide for parents, teachers, and caregivers who want to navigate the challenges of raising boys in the modern era. This bestselling book has been significantly updated to address the needs of today’s society, promoting gender equality, respect, and a progressive understanding of masculinity while tackling the pervasive issue of toxic masculinity.

Biddulph delves into the intricacies of boys' development with cutting-edge science and practical advice. He discusses the pivotal 'physical fours', the 'emotional eights', and how to transform puberty into a positive experience. This comprehensive guide offers hundreds of practical tips, from understanding the different stages of a boy's physical and emotional growth to fostering their unique strengths and eccentricities.

No two boys are alike, and Biddulph underscores the importance of understanding each boy's unique personality and needs. The idea that ‘if we understand them, we can help them’ has resonated with over a million families globally, making this book a cherished and trusted resource.

With nearly 30 years of experience, Biddulph is one of Australia’s most prominent psychologists, having significantly impacted a generation of fathers and offering invaluable support to countless mothers. His dynamic approach has encouraged many fathers to take a more hands-on role in parenting, while empowering mothers with the confidence to raise their sons effectively. His expertise is further enriched through his work with schools in 17 countries and from the 130,000 parents who have attended his compelling live talks.

The acclaim for Biddulph's work is widespread:

‘Biddulph is electrifying’
- Telegraph

‘Biddulph is a spellbinder’
- 60 Minutes

This indispensable book is not just about raising boys but about raising them to be the kind of men the world needs - respectful, resilient, and emotionally intelligent. Whether you are already familiar with Biddulph's work or discovering it for the first time, Raising Boys in the 21st Century is a vital resource for nurturing the potential in every young boy.

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Raising Boys in the 21st Century by Steve Biddulph receives praise for its insightful and practical advice on parenting boys in today's world. Reviewers appreciate the book for its clear guidance on nurturing the emotional and mental well-being of boys. Many find it both relatable and useful, offering valuable tips for parents, educators, and caregivers.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780648100898

Publisher: Finch Publishing

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 23 April 2018

Country: Australia

Imprint: Simon & Schuster Australia

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 154.0mm

Height: 235.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 320

About the Author

Steve Biddulph, AM, is one of the world’s best known parent educators. A psychologist for 30 years, he is now retired but continues to write and teach. His books, including Raising Boys, Raising Girls, Ten Things Girls Need Most and The New Manhood, are in four million homes and 31 languages around the world. Steve’s work has influenced the way we look at childhood, the development of boys and men, the exploitation of girls and the misuse of young women globally.  

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