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This Party's Got To Stop

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This Party's Got To Stop by Rupert Thomson is a poignant exploration of loss, family, and identity. After the death of their father, three estranged brothers reunite in their childhood home, where they confront their shared past and uncover long-buried secrets. This memoir delves into themes of grief, memory, and the complex dynamics of sibling relationships.
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You might enjoy this book if you're drawn to deeply personal memoirs that explore family dynamics and the complexities of grief. The author offers a raw and reflective narrative of sibling relationships, loss, and the struggle to find meaning amidst chaos, all with a touch of dark humour.

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A powerful memoir that reveals the fragility of family life in graphic and often heartbreaking detail.

'Wonderfully dark, relentlessly slippery ... I read this entire memoir with my breath held' Julie Myerson, Observer

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In his first venture into non-fiction, the celebrated novelist Rupert Thomson has produced one of the most extraordinary and unforgettable memoirs of recent years.

On a warm, sunny day in July 1964, Thomson returned home from school to discover that his mother had died suddenly while playing tennis. Twenty years later, Thomson and his brothers receive word that their father, who suffered chronic lung damage during the war, has died alone in hospital. In an attempt to come to terms both with their own loss and with their parents' legacies, the three brothers move back into their father's house. The time they spend in this decadent, anarchic commune leads to a rift between Thomson and his youngest brother, a rift that will not be addressed for more than two decades.

This Party's Got to Stop works Thomson's memories into a powerful mosaic that reveals the fragility of family life in graphic and often heartbreaking detail. It is both a love letter to a lost brother and a chronicle of the murderousness and longing that can characterise blood relationships.

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This Party's Got To Stop by Rupert Thomson is a poignant memoir that delves into themes of grief, family dynamics, and personal introspection. Rupert Thomson has been praised for his evocative writing style, which deeply engages readers as they explore the complexities of sibling relationships amid the aftermath of their father's death. The book is recognised for its emotional depth and the author's raw, honest portrayal of the mourning process.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781847081742

Publisher: Granta Books

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 May 2011

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Granta Books

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 201g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Rupert Thomson is the author of eight highly acclaimed novels: Dreams of Leaving, The Five Gates of Hell, Air and Fire, The Insult, Soft, The Book of Revelation, Divided Kingdom and most recently, Death of a Murderer, which was shortlisted for the Costa Novel of the Year Award and by World Book Day for the Book to Talk About 2008. He recently moved back to London after living in Barcelona with his wife and daughter. This is his first book for Granta.

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