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She/He/They/Me

An Interactive Guide to the Gender Binary
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She/He/They/Me by Robyn Ryle explores the complex journey of gender identity through an interactive approach. Readers are invited to make choices that lead them through different life paths, shedding light on how culture, society, and personal decisions shape one's gender experience. This educational endeavour encourages understanding and reflection on the diverse nature of gender.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in exploring the complexities of gender through an educational and interactive approach. It offers a journey through the multifaceted world of gender identity, making it suitable for those looking to understand and navigate gender diversity more deeply.

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A groundbreaking, creative book that explores one of the most important, challenging, and fluid concepts in society today—Gender.

An accessible guide for learning about gender identity for those questioning their own genders, generally curious about gender, or interested in better understanding someone else's identity.

If you've ever questioned the logic of basing an entire identity around what you have between your legs, it's time to embark on a daring escape outside of the binary box. Written in a choose-your-own path style, you'll explore over one hundred different scenarios that embrace nearly every definition of gender around the globe and throughout history in a refreshingly creative exploration of the ways gender colours and shapes our world.

In She/He/They/Me, Dr. Robyn Ryle, professor of sociology and gender studies at Hanover College in Indiana, thoughtfully discusses gender constructs, expectations, and transitions along with covering everything from the science, biology, and psychology of gender to the philosophy, legality and societal implications.

This is a must-read for better understanding and celebrating LGBTQ+, nonbinary, and transgender identities and a great resource for parents of gender queer kids.

Praise for She/He/They/Me:

"An engaging, choose-your-own-adventure-style guide to gender that encourages readers to travel down paths with which they may not be familiar. These guided thought experiments are opportunities to consider just how strongly our gender assignments influence our daily lives." - Psychology Today

"This is a wonderful book on the nuance of gender. I think the flip-book 'choose your own adventure' style is novel and allows for a custom reading experience. The back and forth makes it friendly and easy to digest." - Lara B. (Amazon Customer)

"Light and accessible, this is a smart and streamlined journey through the nuances of gender identity." - Booklist

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She/He/They/Me by Robyn Ryle is widely praised for its engaging exploration of gender identity through a choose-your-own-adventure format. Reviewers appreciate how the book offers an accessible and thoughtful journey through diverse gender pathways, making it a valuable educational tool. It is noted for successfully encouraging readers to reflect on the complexities of gender inclusivity in a nuanced yet straightforward manner.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781728242736

Publisher: Sourcebooks, Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 25 August 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Sourcebooks, Inc

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 31.0mm

Width: 142.0mm

Height: 211.0mm

Weight: 459g

Pages: 448

About the Author

DR. ROBYN RYLE is an author, speaker, and Professor of Sociology and Gender Studies at Hanover College in Indiana. She has written for Gawker, Little Fiction/Big Truths, and CALYX Journal.

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