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Outsmarting the Sociopath Next Door

How to Protect Yourself Against a Ruthless Manipulator
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Outsmarting the Sociopath Next Door by Dr Martha Stout builds on her seminal work The Sociopath Next Door, shifting from identification to practical defence strategies. This insightful guide explores interactions with sociopaths in various rolesโ€”whether an unyielding ex-spouse, a manipulative boss, or a family member. Dr Stout unpacks the psychological tactics employed by sociopaths and offers tactical advice to maintain control and protect oneself. Chapters cover themes including destructive narcissism and violent sociopathy, all woven with contemporary psychological theories and the power of conscience over empathy-lacking adversaries.
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This book is ideal for readers seeking practical help dealing with sociopathic individuals in personal or professional settings, especially those facing difficult family dynamics or workplace challenges. It suits anyone interested in psychology, victim support, or strategies for maintaining safety against manipulative behaviour.

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In her previous book, The Sociopath Next Door, Martha Stout revealed that 1 in 25 people is a sociopath. Now find out how to deal with the person who's threatening your health, happiness and wellbeing.

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From Dr. Martha Stout's influential work The Sociopath Next Door, we learned how to identify a sociopath. Now she tells us what to actually do about it.

While the best way to deal with a sociopath is to avoid them entirely, sometimes circumstance doesn't allow for that. What happens when the time comes to defend yourself against your own child, a boss, or ruthless ex-spouse? Inspired by the many chilling and often heartbreaking emails and letters she has received over the years, from her work with the victims of sociopathy, Dr. Martha Stout uncovers the psychology behind the sociopath's methods and provides concrete guidelines to help navigate these dangerous interactions.

Organised around categories such as destructive narcissism, violent sociopaths, sociopathic coworkers, and the sociopath in your family, Outsmarting the Sociopath Next Door contains detailed explanation and commentary on how best to react in these situations to keep the sociopath at bay. Uniting these categories is a discussion of changing psychological theories of personality and sociopathy and the enduring triumph of conscience over those who operate without empathy or concern for others. By understanding the person you're dealing with and changing the rules of the game, you'll be able to gain the upper hand and escape the sociopath's influence.

Whether you're fighting a custody battle against a sociopathic ex or being gaslighted by a boss or coworker, you'll find hope and help within these pages. With this guide to disarming the conscienceless, Dr. Stout aims to give readers the tools to protect themselves while conducting a broader examination of human behaviour and conceptions of normality.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529331301

Publisher: John Murray Press

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 03 February 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Sheldon Press

Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education, Professional and scholarly

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 198.0mm

Weight: 211g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Martha Stout, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in private practice, served on the faculty in psychology in the department of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School for twenty-five years. She is the author of The Myth of Sanity and also of the bestseller The Sociopath Next Door. She lives on Cape Ann in Massachusetts, US.

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