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It Begins with You
The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life
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The beloved relationships coach, and host of the top relationships podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths to self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.Jillian Turecki's warm, yet no-nonsense approach...
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The beloved relationships coach, and host of the top relationships podcast Jillian on Love reveals nine core truths to self-acceptance and provides powerful self-healing techniques to help us repair our relationship with ourselves and start building the rewarding relationships we deserve.Jillian Turecki's warm, yet no-nonsense approach to love has attracted a devoted following of millions. In this, her highly anticipated debut book, she makes clear that if you want a meaningful relationship filled with connection, security, and intimacy, you have to take responsibility. The common denominator in all your relationships is you.Drawn on her decades of experience helping clients heal themselves and their relationships, It Begins with You introduces the 9 core truths we must accept:Truth 1: It begins with YOU.Truth 2: The mind is a battlefield.Truth 3: Lust is not the same thing as love.Truth 4: You must show up as your higher self.Truth 5: You must speak up and tell the truth.Truth 6: You have to love yourself.Truth 7: You cannot convince someone to love you.Truth 8: No one is coming to save you.Truth 9: We must make peace with our parents.Blending therapeutic strategies, somatic techniques, client case studies, practical tools, tips, and guiding questions, It Begins With You gives us a roadmap to finally start doing the work needed to love ourselves and find the love we deserve.
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INFORMATION
ISBN: 9781398721463
Publisher: Orion Publishing Co
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 14 January 2025
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Orion Spring
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 20.0mm
Width: 152.0mm
Height: 232.0mm
Weight: 320g
Pages: 256
About the Author
Jillian Turecki is a relationship coach, teacher, podcaster, writer, and speaker who has devoted her life to helping people revolutionize their relationships with themselves. For over 20 years, Jillian has maintained a deep commitment to authenticity, compassion, and inner transformation as she follows her insatiable curiosity about what makes relationships thrive. Between Jillian's podcast, "Jillian on Love," her newsletter, "Love Weekly," and her social media community, Jillian reaches millions of people who seek her actionable, compassionate, direct, and research-driven insight.
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