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You Don't Understand Me

The Young Woman's Guide to Life - The Sunday Times bestseller
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You Don't Understand Me by Dr Tara Porter delves into the complex emotional landscape of teenage girls and the communication gap often experienced with adults. This self-help guide aims to foster mutual understanding and empathy by offering insights and practical advice for both teens and their parents. Through a compassionate approach, the book explores how these interactions can be improved to build stronger relationships.
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You might enjoy this book if you're interested in bridging the communication gap between teenage girls and their parents. It provides valuable insights from a clinical psychologist, offering guidance on understanding and navigating the emotional world of adolescents, making it a useful resource for parents and teens seeking healthier relationships.

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Being a teenager or a young woman now is hard, harder than ever before. Writing directly to young women, Dr Tara Porter's empathetic, highly expert approach can guide you through these years. For parents, this book will provide an insight into what their daughter is experiencing.

Being a teenager or a young woman now is hard, harder than ever before. Writing directly to young women, Dr Tara Porter's empathetic, highly expert approach can guide you through these years. For parents, this book will provide an insight into what their daughter is experiencing.

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'If God were a mother, this is the Bible she would write for teenage girls and young women. This book is the greatest gift you could give your daughter' - Caitlin Moran

'I would recommend this brilliantly clear and informative book to every young girl...Tara writes with deep knowledge, warmth and humour about all the challenges young girls and all of us face, and she tells us how to overcome them' - Julia Samuel

For girls and young women these are shifting times: never before have they had so much freedom and choice; but never before have they had so many demands placed upon them - by themselves as well as others.

Writing directly to girls and young women, Dr Tara Porter draws on decades of experience to offer them insight into their own psychology. From exams to friendship, from families to love, Tara pulls together everything she has learnt to provide accessible explanations and suggestions for teenagers and young women everywhere. Like a warm letter from a wise friend or big sister, You Don't Understand Me not only understands the young person's perspectives but guides them through the challenges they face.

You Don't Understand Me is uniquely written to teenagers and young women. But in explaining young women to themselves, it also provides an indispensable guide to their parents: a glimpse behind the rolled eyes and the protestations their daughter makes: 'You Don't Understand Me'.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781788705127

Publisher: Bonnier Books Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 14 April 2022

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Lagom

Audience: General / adult, Teenage

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 27.0mm

Width: 136.0mm

Height: 216.0mm

Weight: 354g

Pages: 352

About the Author

Tara Porter is the lead Psychologist in the Eating Disorders CAMHS team. Her team treats young people, 90% female, across Barnet, Enfield, Haringey, Camden and Islington. Whilst her role on the team is diverse, a huge part of it is one-to-one therapy with girls and young women. Since 2016 she has also had a private practice where she sees children, adolescents and adults with a wide range of presenting problems.

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