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Eight Dates

To keep your relationship happy, thriving and lasting
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Eight Dates offers a roadmap for couples to deepen their relationship through engaging conversations. The book outlines eight key conversations, each designed to foster intimacy, trust, and understanding. These dialogues aim to help couples connect on important themes like trust, conflict, sex, and dreams, contributing to a stronger and more fulfilling partnership.
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You might enjoy this book if you're seeking to strengthen your relationship through guided conversations and meaningful connections. It offers practical advice and engaging activities designed by experts to help couples deepen their emotional bond and explore important life themes. If you're interested in nurturing your partnership and learning more about building enduring love, this book could be a valuable resource.

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What are the signs of a thriving long term relationship? The Gottman Institute 'Love Lab' doctors reveal the golden rules of making love last.

What really makes a relationship work? How can we stay interested in our partner forever? How can we be happier in our marriage?

Doctors John and Julie Gottman have spent over three decades studying the habits of 3000 couples. Within 10 minutes of meeting a couple, they can predict who will stay happily together or who will split up, with 94% accuracy. Based on their findings, they have now created an easy series of eight datesโ€”spanning commitment, trust, conflict, intimacy, sex, fun, work, money, and family valuesโ€”that will lead to a happier, lasting love life.

Eight Dates draws on rigorous scientific and psychological research about how we fall in love, using case studies of real-life couples whose relationships have improved after committing time to each other and following the dates. Full of innovative exercises and conversation starters to explore ways to deepen each aspect of the relationship, Eight Dates is an essential resource that makes a relationship fulfilling.

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The book, highly praised by experts and media alike, is seen as a transformative guide to maintaining and deepening love through meaningful conversations. With fresh and insightful approaches, it offers strategies grounded in decades of research, aiming to benefit both long-term and new couples desiring lasting relationships. The book is lauded for its potential to rekindle and sustain the romantic bonds between partners.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241988350

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 September 2019

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Penguin Life

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 16.0mm

Width: 129.0mm

Height: 199.0mm

Weight: 170g

Pages: 240

About the Author

John Schwartz Gottman (Author) JOHN GOTTMAN, PHD, is the bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work and numerous acclaimed books. His breakthrough work has won him four National Institute of Mental Health Research Science Awards, and he is a frequent guest on national media. He also co-founded the Gottman Institute with his wife, Julie. Julie Schwartz Gottman (Author) JULIE SCHWARTZ GOTTMAN, PHD, is an award-winning psychologist, co-creator of the Art and Science of Love weekend workshops, and author or co-author of five books, including Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage.

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