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Can You Tolerate This?

By Ashleigh Young
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Can You Tolerate This? is a collection of personal essays by Ashleigh Young, exploring themes of identity, isolation, and the peculiarities of small-town life in New Zealand. Through reflective and insightful anecdotes, the author delves into her own experiences and emotions, offering readers a lyrical and contemplative view of her world. This book artfully captures the intricacies of human connections and the beauty found in everyday life.
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This collection of essays may appeal to you if you enjoy introspective and lyrical explorations of life's small moments and personal experiences. The author shares contemplative and often humorous reflections on topics including identity, body image, and the passage of time. Ideal for readers who appreciate a thoughtful and poetic examination of the human condition.

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Winner of the prestigious $200,000 WindhamCampbell Prize and the Ockham New Zealand Book Award for Nonfiction.

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Winner of the prestigious $200,000 Windham-Campbell Prize and the Ockham New Zealand Book Award for Nonfiction.

The second title in Giramondo's 'Southern Latitudes' series, focusing on innovative fiction and non-fiction by writers of the southern hemisphere.

Calling to mind both Joan Didion and Anton Chekhov, Young is relentless in her examination of herself and endlessly curious and compassionate in her consideration of the world. Can You Tolerate This? offers a glimpse into this extraordinarily promising writer's quest to seek in the small accidents of her individual life the outlines of a much larger reality.

— Windham-Campbell Prize judges' citation

Can You Tolerate This? is a collection of twenty-one personal essays that tell the story of a young woman growing up in a small New Zealand town and making her way as an adult into the wider world. Young roams freely from preoccupation to preoccupation: the music scenes in regional New Zealand, family relations, eccentric characters, the desire for physical transformation—trying to find some measure of clarity amid uncertainty. How to bear each moment of experience: the inconsequential as well as the shattering?

Her essays turn on unlikely connections that reveal strange resonances, shifting perspective with a dry, ironic perception and lightness of wit.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781925336443

Publisher: Giramondo Publishing Co

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 01 September 2017

Country: Australia

Imprint: Giramondo Publishing Co

Illustration: Illustrations

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 130.0mm

Height: 197.0mm

Weight: 320g

Pages: 280

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