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This is Not a Pity Memoir

The heartbreaking and life-affirming bestseller from the creator of ERIC
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This is Not a Pity Memoir by Abi Morgan provides a candid and heartfelt account of her life following an unexpected family crisis. The narrative explores themes of resilience, love, and the complex dynamics of family relationships as Morgan navigates through unforeseen challenges. This memoir is a poignant reflection on survival and the bonds that hold us together.
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You might enjoy this book if you appreciate deeply personal narratives exploring resilience and the complexity of relationships, as the author shares a poignant and hopeful account of facing unexpected challenges and finding strength in adversity. Its candid storytelling may resonate with readers who value authenticity and emotional depth in memoirs.

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The instant SUNDAY TIMES bestseller: 'Breathtaking . . . this book is a gift' MERYL STREEP

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Both very funny and as propulsive as a thriller . . . impossible to put down' RACHEL COOKE, Observer

The kind of book you will find yourself saying urgently, over and over, to friends: 'Have you read it?' CAITLIN MORAN

'Gripping, funny and always honest' DAVID NICHOLLS

'Extraordinary . . . utterly compelling and so honestly told' NIGELLA LAWSON

'Truly breathtaking. I could not have loved it more' CAREY MULLIGAN

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An ordinary day.

The end of ordinary life.

One morning in June, Abi had her to-do list - drop the kids to school, get coffee and go to work. Jacob had a bad headache so she added 'pick up steroids'. She returned home and found the man she loved and fought and laughed with for twenty years lying on the bathroom floor.

And nothing would ever be the same again.

But This is Not a Pity Memoir is not a pity memoir. It's about meeting your person. And crazed late night Google trawls. It's about the things you wished you'd said to the person that matters then wildly over-sharing with the barista who doesn't know you at all. It's about sushi and the wrong shoes and the moments you want to shout 'cut'. It's about the silence when you are lost in space and the importance of family and parties and noise.

It's the difference between surviving and living.

It's a reminder that, even in the worst times, there is light ahead.

It's a love story.

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The book by Abi Morgan is a deeply moving memoir that captures both heartbreak and hope, weaving humour and brutal honesty into an extraordinary narrative. Reviewers praise Morgan's ability to mix profound life lessons with wit, creating a story that's both captivating and uplifting. It highlights an emotional journey through tragedy, love, and resilience, making it a compelling and life-affirming read.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781529388350

Publisher: John Murray Press

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 16 March 2023

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: John Murray Publishers Ltd

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 26.0mm

Width: 128.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 252g

Pages: 304

About the Author

Abi Morgan is a BAFTA and Emmy award-winning screenwriter whose credits include Sex Traffic, The Hour, Brick Lane, The Iron Lady, Shame and Suffragette. She is the creator and writer of BBC drama, The Split.

She lives with her husband, children and their dog, Styler, in London. This is her first book.

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