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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay
A Step by Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay in or Get Out of Your Relationship
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Description
Most relationships go through difficult times, and this text is aimed at those who are trying to make a decision about where their relationship is going.
Drawing on her years of experience as a counsellor, psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum uses a series of straightforward questions that will enable the reader to diagnose problems. The only commitment the reader has to make is to be honest.
In Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, Kirshenbaum provides valuable insights and guidance for anyone at a crossroads in their relationship journey.
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Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum offers a practical guide for individuals grappling with whether to stay in or exit a challenging relationship. Readers appreciate its structured approach, providing clear questions and insights that help evaluate the complexities of their situations. Many find the book's advice grounded and useful for personal reflection and decision-making.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780718141776
Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 06 February 1997
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Michael Joseph Ltd
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 22.0mm
Width: 135.0mm
Height: 215.0mm
Weight: 306g
Pages: 304
About the Author
Mira Kirshenbaum is an individual and family psychotherapist in private practice and the clinical director of the Chestnut Hill Institute in Massachusetts. She is the author of four books, including the phenomenally successful Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay (available from Plume), and has appeared on many national television shows, including The Today Show, Maury Povich, Geraldo, Sally Jessy Raphael, and an ABC News special with John Stossel. She is married, has two grown children, and lives in Boston, Massachusetts.
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