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How to be You

Say Goodbye to Should, Would and Could So That You Can
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The latest feel-good book packed with practical tips from the author of the smash-hit book on ADHD, autism, and neurodivergence, Unmasked. Ellie Middleton is back with a new, practical book to help you work with your neurodivergent brain rather than against it. In each chapter, she... Read More
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The latest feel-good book packed with practical tips from the author of the smash-hit book on ADHD, autism, and neurodivergence, Unmasked.

Ellie Middleton is back with a new, practical book to help you work with your neurodivergent brain rather than against it. In each chapter, she writes about the eight executive functions that neurodivergent people struggle with, including working memory, prioritisation, and emotional regulation, and shares simple tips for readers to try out.

This isn't another journal or planner that claims to organise your entire life because Ellie is the first to admit that she doesn't have things under control 100% of the time. This also is not a book about how to fit into the neurotypical way of doing things (aka masking). Instead, Ellie reveals why society tells us that we 'should' do things (read: patriarchy, ableism, White supremacy) and shows us how we can all free ourselves of those expectations, feel empowered, and, ultimately, be more you.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241710371

Publisher: Penguin Books Ltd

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 05 September 2024

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Penguin Life

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 25.0mm

Width: 135.0mm

Height: 217.0mm

Weight: 368g

Pages: 368

About the Author

Ellie Middleton is an activist, speaker and writer committed to breaking taboos and empowering neurodivergent people to thrive in and out of the workplace. She is the founder of (un)masked, a community for neurodivergent people and author of the smash-hit UNMASKED. How to Be You is her second book.

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    The go-to book on neurodivergence for anyone looking for a diagnosis, trying to make sense of one, or trying to be a better ally. In 2021, Ellie was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Although it felt like the light had finally been switched on and she wasn't just 'broken', the room before her was messy from a lifetime of being...
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    The go-to book on neurodivergence for anyone looking for a diagnosis, trying to make sense of one, or trying to be a better ally. In 2021, Ellie was diagnosed with autism and ADHD. Although it felt like the light had finally been switched on and she wasn’t just β€˜broken’, the room before her was messy from a lifetime of being...
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