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Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers

The self-love guide to growing, healing and learning to put yourself first
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I know exactly what it's like to put others first, to settle for less than you deserve, and to navigate relationships while trying to balance your independence and goals. But we are worth more than this. Having embarked on my self-love journey, I found that women... Read More
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Social media star Tam Kaur's ultimate guide to self-love, helping you find yourself through dating, breakups, bad relationships and so much more.

Social media star Tam Kaur's ultimate guide to self-love, helping you find yourself through dating, breakups, bad relationships and so much more.

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I know exactly what it's like to put others first, to settle for less than you deserve, and to navigate relationships while trying to balance your independence and goals. But we are worth more than this.

Having embarked on my self-love journey, I found that women often lacked clarity on what self-love really means and how to achieve it, and this needs to change. I've packed Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers with lessons and methods I've learnt so that no woman is left accepting what life throws at her, but rather can use every moment as a tool to craft her dream self and reality. Whether you're single, taken, heartbroken, healing, or trying to level up into the best version of yourself, this book is for you.

Buy Yourself the Damn Flowers is an in-depth, comprehensive guide for all things self-love, including actionable homework, transformative tools, and reassuring information that will help every woman learn to:

  • set boundaries
  • escape external validation
  • build confidence
  • transform pain into power
  • maintain loving yourself whilst loving others, and so much more.

Every woman deserves to cultivate a lasting love for the person who matters most: you. It's finally time to buy yourself the damn flowers.

Tam x

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781785121746

Publisher: Bonnier Books Ltd

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 15 August 2024

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Lagom

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 27.0mm

Width: 143.0mm

Height: 224.0mm

Weight: 376g

Pages: 288

About the Author

Tam Kaur is a YouTuber, podcaster and content creator. With over 1 million followers across her socials, Tam is teaching a generation how to love themselves fiercely.

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