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Conflict is Not Abuse
Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility and the Duty of Repair
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This thought-provoking book is ideal for readers interested in politics, social justice, and personal growth, particularly those seeking to better understand conflict, accountability, and societal dynamics.
Conflict Is Not Abuse :A book on the cultural phenomenon of blame, cruelty, and scapegoating as a power tactic in a range of relationships, from the most intimate (partners, friends) to the broadest (cultural groups, nations). It discusses how those in power positions exacerbate and manipulate fear of the "other" to achieve their aims.
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From intimate relationships to global politics, Sarah Schulman observes a continuum: that inflated accusations of harm are used to avoid accountability. Illuminating the difference between Conflict and Abuse, Schulman directly addresses our contemporary culture of scapegoating.
This deep, brave, and bold work reveals how punishment replaces personal and collective self-criticism, and shows why difference is so often used to justify cruelty and shunning.
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bell hooks praises Schulman’s "awesome brilliance and insight," highlighting the book’s strategies to move beyond victimhood and blame, and its vision of mutual recognition and accountability. Claudia Rankine calls it a groundbreaking and challenging work that demands deep engagement and discussion for those invested in understanding complex conflicts.
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ISBN: 9781551526430
Publisher: Arsenal Pulp Press
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 16 March 2017
Country: Canada
Imprint: Arsenal Pulp Press
Audience: General / adult
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Width: 153.0mm
Height: 230.0mm
Weight: 250g
Pages: 302
About the Author
Sarah Schulman: Sarah Schulman is a novelist, nonfiction writer, playwright, screenwriter, journalist and AIDS historian, and the author of eighteen books. A Guggenheim and Fulbright Fellow, Sarah is a Distinguished Professor of the Humanities at the City University of New York, College of Staten Island, and on the advisory board of Jewish Voice for Peace.
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