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Make Love Work

A Practical Guide to Relationship Success
By Nic Beets
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'Insightful, practical and inspiring . . . required reading for anyone in or venturing into a relationship.'-Jennifer Ward-Lealand, actor and intimacy coordinatorWe all want to make the most of our relationship. We hope it will be the centre of joy and satisfaction in our life. Yet... Read More
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Proven, practical strategies to help your relationship and make it flourish

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'Insightful, practical and inspiring . . . required reading for anyone in or venturing into a relationship.'-Jennifer Ward-Lealand, actor and intimacy coordinator


We all want to make the most of our relationship. We hope it will be the centre of joy and satisfaction in our life. Yet so often we end up hurt, frustrated or resentful.

If you've wondered why your relationship has stalled orwhy you find intimate partnerships so hard; why youbehave the way you do or why you can't make sense ofwhat your partner does, Make Love Work explains it all.It gives you the tools you need to be successful in love -from preventing your insecurities and neurobiologyfrom wrecking your relationship to being a team playerand handling conflict well.


There are practical strategies for handling common areasof stress: fairness, sex and intimacy, parenting, money andsetting boundaries. Plus, excellent advice on the reallytough issues: infidelity, abuse, major stresses, loss and grief.


Make Love Work is your essential bible for making your relationship the best it can be.

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ISBN: 9781988547923

Publisher: Allen & Unwin Aotearoa New Zealand

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 02 May 2023

Country: New Zealand

Imprint: Allen & Unwin Aotearoa New Zealand

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 160.0mm

Height: 240.0mm

Weight: 400g

Pages: 392

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About the Author

Nic Beets is a clinical psychologist and family therapist who has specialised in relationship and sex therapy throughout his three decades of practice. He has been with the same partner since he was 17, fellow psychologist Verity Thom. They have two children who have taught them much about love and priorities. Another joint project is a fortnightly column for The New Zealand Herald called 'Intimacy, Actually', which answers readers' questions on love, sex and relationships.

As well as seeing clients, Nic provides training and supervision in relationship therapy and the Developmental Model in particular. In addition, he is the coordinator and host of the Sex Therapy Interest Group, an Australasian peer-support network for sex therapists that has been running for more than 20 years.

A keen waterman, Nic loves anything related to the sea. His current passions are SUP surfing and long-distance waka ama (outrigger canoe) racing.

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