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So Sad Today: personal essays

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In So Sad Today, Melissa Broder delves into her innermost thoughts through a series of candid and introspective essays. The book explores themes of identity, mental health, love, and existential anxiety, providing a raw and often darkly humorous glimpse into the complexities of modern life. Through wit and vulnerability, Broder invites readers to confront their own feelings of discomfort and self-reflection.
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You might enjoy this book if you're drawn to candid and unflinching explorations of modern anxiety, identity, and relationships, presented with a mix of wit and vulnerability. Melissa Broder delves into deeply personal experiences with honesty and humour, making it appealing for readers who appreciate introspective and raw storytelling.

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So Sad Today? Many are. Melissa Broder is too. How and why did she get to be so sad? And should she stay sad?

She asks herself these questions over and over here, turning them into a darkly mesmerising and strangely uplifting reading experience through coruscating honesty and a total lack of self-deceit. Sexually confused, a recovering addict, suffering from an eating disorder, and marked by one very strange sex fetish, Broder's life is full of extremes.

From her days working for a Tantric nonprofit in San Francisco to caring for a severely ill husband, there's no subject that Broder is afraid to write about, and no shortage of readers who can relate.

When she started an anonymous Twitter feed, @sosadtoday, to express her darkest feelings, her unflinching frankness and twisted humour soon gained a huge cult following.

In its treatment of anxiety, depression, illness, and instability; by its fearless exploration of the author's romantic relationships ('romantic' is an expanded term in her hands); and with its inventive imagery and deadpan humour, So Sad Today is radical.

It is an unapologetic, unblinkingly intimate book which splays out a soul and a prose of unusual beauty.

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So Sad Today by Melissa Broder is widely praised for its raw honesty and dark humour. Reviewers appreciate Broder's candid exploration of anxiety, depression, and existential despair, delivered with a sharp wit. The essays are noted for being deeply personal and relatable, offering a compelling and unique voice in the genre.

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ISBN: 9781925321333

Publisher: Scribe Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 27 June 2016

Country: Australia

Imprint: Scribe Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 17.0mm

Width: 136.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 220g

Pages: 224

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