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Beyond Boundaries

Learning to Trust Again in Relationships
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Beyond Boundaries by John Townsend explores how to open your heart and build meaningful connections after previous relational challenges. It offers guidance for establishing healthy boundaries while maintaining trust and intimacy. This book combines spiritual insights with practical advice to encourage personal growth and stronger relationships.
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This book may appeal to you if you are interested in exploring the dynamics of personal boundaries within the context of faith and spirituality. It provides insights on how to establish healthy relationships while maintaining your personal limits, which may enhance your spiritual and emotional growth. If you're looking for guidance on balancing relationships and personal integrity, this book might be a great fit for you.

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How do you know you’re ready to trust again? In Beyond Boundaries, bestselling author Dr. John Townsend helps you discover when and how to trust again after you’ve set appropriate boundaries, how to connect deeply without being hurt, and how to safely grow your most intimate relationships.

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For when your trust has been broken: discover how to set firm boundaries again, how to connect deeply without being hurt, and how to safely grow your most intimate relationships.

Painful relationships violate our trust, causing us to close our hearts. But to experience the freedom and love God designed us for, we eventually have to take another risk.

In this breakthrough book, bestselling author Dr. John Townsend takes you beyond the pain of the past to discover how to re-enter a life of intimate relationships. Whether you're trying to restore a current relationship or begin a new one, Townsend gives practical tools for establishing trust and finding the intimacy you long for.

Beyond Boundaries will help you:

  • Reinstate closeness appropriately with someone who broke your trust
  • Discern when true change has occurred
  • Reestablish appropriate connections in strained relationships
  • Create a safe environment that helps you trust
  • Restore former relationships to a healthy dynamic
  • Learn to engage and be vulnerable in a new relationship as well

You can move past relational pain to trust again. Beyond Boundaries will show you how.

Plus, dig even deeper into relational healing with the coordinating video study and study guide. Spanish edition also available.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780310330769

Publisher: Zondervan

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 13 November 2012

Country: United States

Imprint: Zondervan

Contributors:

  • Foreword by Dr. Henry Cloud

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 21.0mm

Width: 151.0mm

Height: 227.0mm

Weight: 303g

Pages: 272

About the Author

Dr. John Townsend is a nationally-known leadership consultant, psychologist, and New York Times bestselling author. John is the founder of the Townsend Institute for Leadership and Counselling, and the Townsend Leadership Program, which is a nationwide system of leadership training groups. He developed the online digital platform TownsendNOW, and the online assessment tool TPRAT. Dr. Townsend travels extensively for corporate consulting, speaking, and helping develop leaders, their teams and their families. He and his wife, Barbi, live in Newport Beach, California, and have two sons, Ricky and Benny.

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