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How Not to Fit In
An Unapologetic Guide to Navigating Autism and ADHD
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‘The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.’ – Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia Written by two late-diagnosed neurodivergent women and...
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’The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.’ – Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia
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‘The lack of information around how ADHD and autism shows up in adults means that many of us have been assuming we were anxious, not working hard enough, or just entirely failing altogether.’ – Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia
Written by two late-diagnosed neurodivergent women and the founders of the fast-growing online community @IAmPayingAttention, How Not to Fit In is a handbook-meets-rallying cry.
Foregrounding real experiences with autism and ADHD, this book explores the journey of discovering, accepting and flourishing with your neurodivergent brain. It explores why getting a diagnosis can be so fraught and gendered, and how to navigate a world which centres neurotypical brains in the realms of relationships, careers, friendships, and finances.
By reading this book, you'll:
- Start to understand why so many people are being diagnosed with ADHD and autism right now.
- Learn the impact that not knowing your own brain can have on your mental health.
- Find the confidence to ask for accommodations and adjustments at work – without apologising.
- Have the chance to note down how this journey is evolving for you in chapter-by-chapter workbook sections.
- … and, most importantly, get to know yourself and your needs better.
Featuring the latest research and thinking on neurodivergence, contributions from dozens of experts, and the real stories of people just like you, this innovative book – written and designed especially for spicy brains – is essential reading for anyone whose brain seems to see the world in a different way.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780008687021
Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 15 February 2024
Country: United Kingdom
Imprint: Thorsons
Illustration: 20 b/w, illus
Audience: General / adult
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 32.0mm
Width: 135.0mm
Height: 216.0mm
Weight: 340g
Pages: 352
About the Author
Best friends of a decade Jess Joy and Charlotte Mia founded the Instagram platform @IAmPayingAttention in October 2020 and in the three years since have fostered a community of nearly 100k people. They both identify as late-diagnosed neurodivergent women.
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