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Raising LGBTQ Allies

A Parent's Guide to Changing the Messages from the Playground
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Raising LGBTQ Allies by Chris Tompkins explores the deep-rooted nature of homophobia and the importance of fostering acceptance from an early age. The book encourages parents and caregivers to recognise heteronormativity's impact and to engage in open, honest conversations that help prevent homophobic and transphobic beliefs. Through practical advice and reflection on subconscious biases, Tompkins offers a path toward creating a world where LGBTQ identities are normalised, and allyship begins one child at a time.
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Ideal for parents, family members, caregivers, and anyone involved in raising or supporting children, especially those seeking to understand and champion LGBTQ acceptance. While primarily targeted at adults, the book offers valuable insights for educators and anyone interested in challenging societal biases and nurturing allyship from a young age.

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"[A] powerful treatise on creating a more accepting world." Publishers Weekly, Starred Review - The first book to focus on the prevention of homophobia, transphobia, and bullying before they begin. It encourages families to have open and authentic conversations in a practical, timely, and inclusive way.

No matter who we are or where we come from, we all play on the same playground.

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“[A] powerful treatise on creating a more accepting world.” — Publishers Weekly, Starred Review

Creating LGBTQ allies happens one child at a time. And it begins with each of us.

Raising LGBTQ Allies sheds light on the deeper, multi-faceted layers of homophobia. It opens up a conversation with parents around the possibility they may have an LGBTQ child and shows how heteronormativity can be harmful if not addressed clearly and early. Although not every parent will have an LGBTQ child, their child will jump rope or play tag with a child who is LGBTQ.

By showing readers the importance of having open and authentic conversations with children at a young age, Chris Tompkins walks parents through the many ways they can prevent new generations from adopting homophobic and transphobic beliefs, while helping them explore their own subconscious biases.

Offering specific actions that parents, family members, and caregivers can take to help navigate conversations, address heteronormativity, and challenge societal beliefs, Raising LGBTQ Allies serves as a guide to help normalize being LGBTQ from a young age. Creating allies and a world where closets don’t exist happens one child at a time—and it begins with each of us and what we say, as much as what we choose not to say.

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Publishers Weekly gave the book a starred review, calling it a "powerful treatise on creating a more accepting world." Critics praise Tompkins for his thoughtful, informed, and inspirational guidance that challenges traditional thinking to combat queerphobia. Drawing on personal experiences as a teacher and counsellor, the author offers affirming advice on how adults can foster acceptance and prevent bullying. The book is seen as a crucial resource for those aiming to create safer, more inclusive environments for children.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781538136263

Publisher: Bloomsbury Publishing Plc

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 14 May 2021

Country: United States

Imprint: Rowman & Littlefield

Illustration: 1 b/w illustratio

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 24.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 227.0mm

Weight: 454g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Chris Tompkins is a teacher, TEDx speaker, spiritual life coach, and LGBTQ inner-advocate based in Los Angeles, California. More importantly, he’s an uncle of five. Chris believes all kids are the future and teaches social-emotional learning throughout Southern California.

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