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Finding True Connections

How to Learn and Write About a Family Member's History
Brief Description
Our individual memories define us. Our tribal memories unite us. If these are missing, parts of us are missing too. The Emotional Inheritance division of Exisle Publishing collaborates with a global team of psychologists, writers, and historians to offer a premium interview and life story production... Read More
Format: Hardback
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Our individual memories define us. Our tribal memories unite us. Emotional Inheritance works with psychologists, writers and historians to provide a premium interview and life story production service. Now, Finding True Connections clearly and simply sets out how you can undertake this process yourself, without an external interviewer.

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Our individual memories define us. Our tribal memories unite us. If these are missing, parts of us are missing too.

The Emotional Inheritance division of Exisle Publishing collaborates with a global team of psychologists, writers, and historians to offer a premium interview and life story production service, capturing the life stories of elderly family members. This approach aligns with emerging social trends that honour and value our ancestors, intended to help generations preserve their stories, leaving a lasting, meaningful legacy.

Finding True Connections clearly and simply outlines the steps necessary for you to undertake this process yourself, without an external interviewer. The book is designed as a series of double-page spreads. On the left-hand page, you will find a prompt question, while the facing page provides notes offering context to the question, along with tips and guidance for obtaining the most meaningful answers.

Questions are grouped into categories such as β€˜Early Childhood’, β€˜Adulthood’, β€˜Marriage and Parenthood’, β€˜The Future’, and β€˜Leaving Advice’, facilitating the creation of a structured narrative and lasting legacy from the interviewee’s answers.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781925820157

Publisher: Exisle Publishing

Format: Hardback

Date Published: 01 July 2019

Country: New Zealand

Imprint: Exisle Publishing

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 191.0mm

Height: 235.0mm

Weight: 250g

Pages: 232

About the Author

Gareth St John Thomas is the founder of Exisle Publishing, an independent publishing house that, for over 25 years, has published books on history, better living, psychology, family, ageing and health. Emotional Inheritance is a division of Exisle Publishing.

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