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How Long Does It Hurt?
A Guide to Recovering from Incest and Sexual Abuse for Teenagers, Their Friends, and Their Families
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Recommended for teenagers affected by sexual abuse, their friends, families, and those seeking guidance on recovery and understanding of incest and sexual abuse.
Three incest survivors share their nightmarish experiences, their triumphs, and ongoing struggles to heal and live whole lives--and send a message of support, strength, and empowerment to other young victims.
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How Long Does It Hurt? is the revised and updated edition of the best-selling book written by an incest survivor for future survivors.
This step-by-step guide speaks directly to victims of sexual abuse to help them come to grips with what is happening to them and overcome their feelings of isolation, confusion, and self-doubt.
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Praised for its comprehensive coverage of the complexities of incest and sexual abuse, this book emphasises empowerment and healing. It serves as a valuable guide for teenagers, their friends, and families, helping readers realise they are not alone and can move beyond the pain.
Book Details
INFORMATION
ISBN: 9780787975692
Publisher: John Wiley & Sons Inc
Format: Paperback / softback
Date Published: 21 December 2004
Country: United States
Imprint: Jossey-Bass Inc.,U.S.
Edition: Revised Edition
Illustration: Drawings: 0 B&W, 0 Color
Contributors:
- With Kristina E. Debye
- Illustrated by Judy Wood
- Foreword by Eliana Gil
Audience: General / adult, Tertiary education
DIMENSIONS
Spine width: 23.0mm
Width: 150.0mm
Height: 226.0mm
Weight: 340g
Pages: 288
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About the Author
THE AUTHORS
CYNTHIA L. MATHER is a survivor of sexual abuse and incest, and speaks at schools, colleges, and churches across the country about child and teenage sexual abuse treatment and prevention.
KRISTINA E. DEBYE, L.C.S.W.C., A.C.S.W., D.C.S.W., is coordinator of the nationally acclaimed Baltimore County Sexual Abuse Treatment Program and maintains a private practice in Maryland.
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