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Worrying Is Optional

Break the Cycle of Anxiety and Rumination That Keeps You Stuck
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Worry happens. Worrying is optional. In a world full of uncertainty, this book helps readers understand and manage their excessive worrying, which can disrupt sleep, thinking, and decision-making. Drawing on metacognitive therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT), it offers a toolkit to challenge rumination and anxiety, explaining the science behind worry and how to regain control.

Readers will gain insight into why they worry, learn to identify when worry becomes disruptive, and develop ways to accept uncertainty and challenge perfectionism. This approachable guide encourages building personalised strategies to manage anxiety effectively.
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Ideal for readers seeking practical, evidence-based strategies to manage worry and anxiety, including those interested in self-help psychology and mental wellness. Useful for individuals coping with anxiety, therapists, and anyone looking to develop healthier thinking habits.

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A powerful new approach that combines strategies from metacognitive therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy, and cognitive behavioral therapy to help anxious readers build their own customizable “anti-worrying” toolbox. Readers will learn to break free from unhelpful thinking patterns and discover that worrying is, in fact, optional.

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Worry happens. Worrying is optional.

We live in an increasingly uncertain world, and if you struggle with worry, you aren’t alone. You should also know that there’s nothing wrong with worry. Worry happens to all of us—and it can even be helpful at times. But excessive worrying—the kind that keeps us up at night, interferes with our thinking during the day, and hijacks our ability to make decisions—is a big, big problem. The good news is that, while worry is inevitable, worrying is completely optional. Worrying Is Optional will show you how to break free from the unhelpful thinking habits that keep you stuck in a loop of rumination and anxiety.

With help from this upbeat guide, you’ll learn to build your own customizable, anti-worrying toolbox using skills and strategies from metacognitive therapy, acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT). You’ll discover the science behind why you worry, and how to put the brakes on unhelpful rumination and anxious thoughts—before they kick your worry and anxiety into high gear.

With this go-to guide, you will:

  • Gain a better understanding of worry
  • Learn why worry happens
  • Know when to draw the line at disruptive worrying
  • Challenge perfectionism and accept uncertainty

There’s no one-size-fits-all treatment for anxiety and worry, but by assembling an arsenal of tools, skills, and strategies, excessive worry can be managed effectively. Worrying Is Optional will help you get started now.

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Worrying Is Optional is praised as an exceptional self-help workbook that teaches acceptance and how to live meaningfully despite worry. Psychologist Marisa T. Mazza commends its clear exploration of mental habits and practical exercises that promote awareness and presence. The book's relatable and humorous tone makes it an accessible and valuable resource for anyone struggling with anxiety.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781648482144

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 28 December 2023

Country: United States

Imprint: New Harbinger Publications

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 12.0mm

Width: 150.0mm

Height: 226.0mm

Weight: 240g

Pages: 168

About the Author

Ben Eckstein, LCSW, is owner and director of Bull City Anxiety & OCD Treatment Center in Durham, NC. Eckstein was trained at McLean Hospital’s OCD Institute, and has been specializing in the treatment of anxiety and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) for over a decade. He serves on the board of directors for OCD North Carolina, and offers training, workshops, and speaking engagements in addition to his clinical work.

Foreword writer Lisa W. Coyne, PhD, is founder and senior clinical consultant of the McLean OCD Institute for Children and Adolescents (OCDI Jr.), and assistant professor in the department of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School. She founded and directs the New England Center for OCD and Anxiety.

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