Better Boys, Better Men

A thought-provoking and much-needed look at how modern masculinity is harming and holding back men—and all of society—and what we can do to promote a new masculinity that allows men of all ages to thrive.

In Better Boys, Better Men, cultural critic and New York Times contributor Andrew Reiner takes readers on a compelling journey through the contemporary landscape of masculinity. This enlightening book argues that men today are adhering to an outdated model of masculinity, one that prevents them from accessing the courage, strength, and resilience necessary to navigate a rapidly changing world. This antiquated model not only harms men themselves but has far-reaching repercussions for society as a whole, leading to numerous societal ills, including academic underperformance, escalating unemployment rates among men, rising levels of depression, and alarming increases in mass violence.

Reiner employs a comprehensive approach in his exploration, conducting in-depth interviews with boys and men of all ages, along with educators, counsellors, therapists, and physicians across the United States. These conversations provide valuable insights into the factors that inhibit the mental and emotional well-being of today's males. Through these interviews, Reiner uncovers the significant barriers preventing boys and men from developing the emotional resilience they need to succeed in various facets of life.

Moreover, Better Boys, Better Men introduces readers to a pioneering group of boys and men who are leading the charge towards a new kind of masculinity. This new masculinity empowers them to embrace and express the full spectrum of their humanity, breaking away from restrictive traditional norms and fostering a healthier and more holistic understanding of manhood.

Urgent and necessary, Better Boys, Better Men is a transformative read that promises to reshape the conversation around masculinity in America today. With its blend of personal narratives, expert insights, and actionable advice, this book is an essential resource for anyone interested in understanding and promoting emotional health and well-being among boys and men. Andrew Reiner's timely work seeks to chart a path forward, where men are not confined by outdated stereotypes but are encouraged to thrive as complete and authentic individuals.