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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are
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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst explores the importance of setting healthy boundaries in relationships while maintaining a faith-driven approach. The book provides practical advice and personal insights on balancing kindness with self-care, illustrating how to gracefully handle goodbyes when necessary. Drawing from religious and spiritual contexts, it encourages readers to nurture their well-being without compromising their values.
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You might enjoy this book if you're seeking guidance on setting healthy boundaries in personal and spiritual relationships. With compassionate insights from its author, this read can help foster emotional well-being and spiritual growth through practical advice grounded in faith.

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Number-one New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps readers stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships by showing them biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye--without losing the best of who they are.

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Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.

Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries—and, when necessary, say goodbye.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that's no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.

After thousands of hours of counselling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.

In these pages, Lysa will help you:

  • Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.
  • Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.
  • Stop being misled and emotionally paralysed by wrongly interpreted or weaponised Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.
  • Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.
  • Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.
  • Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa's Christian counsellor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.

You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.

Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa:

  • Forgiving What You Can't Forget
  • It's Not Supposed to Be This Way
  • Uninvited
  • You're Going to Make It
  • Embraced
  • Seeing Beautiful Again

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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst is praised for offering practical advice on setting healthy boundaries while integrating personal faith and spirituality. Readers appreciate TerKeurst's personal anecdotes and straightforward guidance, which provides tools to navigate relationships with clarity and compassion. The book is noted for its blend of relatable stories, spiritual insight, and actionable steps for personal growth.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781400239863

Publisher: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 08 November 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Edition: ITPE Edition

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 15.0mm

Width: 139.0mm

Height: 211.0mm

Weight: 308g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Lysa TerKeurst is a New York Times bestselling author and national speaker who helps everyday women live an adventure of faith. She is the president of Proverbs 31 Ministries, author of 15 books, and encourages nearly 500,000 women worldwide through a daily online devotional. Her remarkable life story has captured audiences across America, including appearances on Oprah and Good Morning America. She lives in North Carolina with her husband and five children.

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