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How to Heal from Emotionally Immature Parents

Overcome the Impact of Toxic Parenting, Heal Childhood Wounds and Feel at Peace with Your Past
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Understand your childhood, reclaim your power, and create a future free from the patterns of the past Break free from the patterns of emotionally immature parenting. If you've ever felt unseen, like you weren't good enough or that your struggles don't quite fit into books about... Read More
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Understand your childhood, reclaim your power, and create a future free from the patterns of the past Break free from the patterns of emotionally immature parenting. If you've ever felt unseen, like you weren't good enough or that your struggles don't quite fit into books about childhood trauma, this book is for you. Growing up with emotionally immature or emotionally unavailable parents can leave deep imprints - leading to self-doubt, people-pleasing and the feeling that your needs were always secondary. These patterns, often rooted in intergenerational trauma, can persist into adulthood, shaping relationships, self-worth and emotional wellbeing. But it wasn't all bad, right? That's what makes it so confusing. This book helps you make sense of that emotional grey area, acknowledging what wasn't good enough without staying stuck in resentment. Drawing on 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist, Sian Morgan-Crossley offers practical tools to help you break the cycle, heal developmental trauma and reclaim your confidence. Whether you've struggled with toxic parents, an emotionally absent mother or father or recurring patterns in relationships, this guide will help you set boundaries, shift your mindset and move forward with clarity. Inside, you'll learn how to- Recognize and heal the wounds of growing up with emotionally immature parents. Let go of guilt while setting healthy boundaries with toxic family members. Stop the cycle of self-doubt and people-pleasing. Practice self-parenting to nurture the parts of you that were overlooked. Build confidence and lasting self-esteem. Move forward with compassion - without excusing the past. It's time to release the weight of old patterns, embrace your true self and build a future free from the past.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9798318602146

Publisher: Hay House Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 24 February 2026

Country: United States

Imprint: Hay House Inc

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 1.0mm

Width: 1.0mm

Height: 1.0mm

Weight: 1g

About the Author

Sian Morgan-Crossley is a psychotherapist working in psychodynamic counseling and CBT. After having her two children, she moved from practicing in the private sector and the NHS, to launch her Break the Cycle coaching business in 2020. She offers courses on building self-trust and confidence after emotionally immature parenting, mother-wound healing, and on healing from trauma. www.breakthecyclecoaching.co.uk

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