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Sex for One

The Joy of Selfloving
By Betty Dodson
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Sex for One by Betty Dodson is a classic guide that warmly and intelligently explores the pleasures of self-love and masturbation. Drawing on informative illustrations and years of expertise, Dodson confronts societal taboos around masturbation, presenting it as a vital, guilt-free form of sexual expression that is fulfilling for people of all genders and ages. The book emphasises masturbation not only as a safe and solo act but also as a way for couples to explore their sexual responses together. This empowering guide asserts that self-love is an ongoing, joyful love affair throughout life.
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This book is ideal for readers interested in health and wellness, sex education, and pro-sex feminism. It appeals to adults seeking to embrace self-love, enhance their sexual wellbeing, or explore masturbation without shame. Couples interested in deepening their sexual communication may also find it enlightening.

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Argues that masturbation is a legitimate expression of self love, discusses shared masturbation and how it can enhance sex with a partner, and explains how men and women can become more in tune with their bodies.

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The classic guide to fully enjoying the pleasures of self-love, full of warmth, intelligence, and informative line drawings—from a renowned sex educator featured on Netflix's the goop lab with Gwyneth Paltrow.

Confronting one of our last and most deeply rooted taboos—masturbation—noted sex expert and pro-sex feminist Betty Dodson, Ph.D., takes the shame out of self-love by creating a straightforward and appealing guidebook that reveals masturbation as a satisfying, vital form of sexual expression.

Dr. Dodson demonstrates how anyone can learn to make love alone without feelings of guilt or loneliness, and explains why masturbation is sexually and spiritually fulfilling for both men and women. Not only is it the safest sex, but sharing masturbation can also be a sensual treat for couples who want to learn more about each other's sexual responses.

Sex for One demonstrates that self-loving is not just for times in-between lovers or for social misfits. Masturbation is the joyful and ongoing love affair that each of us has with ourselves throughout childhood, adulthood, and the golden years of old age.

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"It’s safe to say that Betty Dodson is responsible for inspiring more people to take sexual pleasure into their own hands than any other force on earth. Sex for One has changed the lives of millions." — Susie Bright, author of Susie Bright’s Sexual Reality

"Sex for One proves once again that Betty Dodson is a pioneering and outstanding authority on masturbation. Read this remarkably honest and liberating book!" — Albert Ellis, Ph.D., author of A New Guide to Rational Living

"After reading this book I can honestly brag about my sex life without exaggeration." — Harvey Fierstein, author of Torch Song Trilogy

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ISBN: 9780517886076

Publisher: Random House USA Inc

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 12 March 1996

Country: United States

Imprint: Random House USA Inc

Illustration: B&W LINE DRAWINGS

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 14.0mm

Width: 152.0mm

Height: 229.0mm

Weight: 221g

Pages: 208

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Betty Dodson Education & Reference Health & Wellness Non-Fiction Penguin Books Self-Help & Personal Development

About the Author

Betty Dodson,PhD, received her doctorate in sexology from the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality and was a public advocate for sexual liberation for more than three decades. She lectured extensively and was regularly featured in the media as a respected sex expert. Dr. Dodson died in October 2020.

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