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Lies My Mirror Told Me

A frank, funny, fearless memoir
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Lies My Mirror Told Me by Wendy Harmer is a lively and introspective memoir where Harmer shares her journey of self-acceptance and challenges society's narrow views on beauty. The book blends humour and honesty as the author delves into her experiences with body image, ageing, and the expectations placed on women. Through her personal stories, she encourages readers to embrace their unique selves and find confidence beyond the reflections they see.
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Entertainer and national treasure Wendy Harmer tells all in her frank, fearless and funny memoir, Lies My Mirror Told Me.

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"I've always believed where there's a chance, you have to take it . . . or invent it."

Wendy Harmer has had an extraordinary life. From being born with a severe facial deformity, to performing as a stand-up comedian, a national television host, and then the highest paid woman in the cut-throat world of Sydney FM radio... Wendy's tale of overcoming adversity is told with her trademark in-your-face frankness and celebrated wit.

Starting life in rural Victoria, Wendy describes her childhood in remote one-teacher, one-room country schools. As her teacher father moved around the state to take up new postings, Wendy, the 'funny looking' kid often in the wrong colour school uniform, developed strategies to find new friends and fit in. When she was ten years old, her mother went missing.

It wasn't until she was well into her teens that Wendy had the reconstructive facial surgery that had long promised to transform her from a 'witch' into a 'princess', but fell agonisingly short.

Somehow, despite her initial setbacks and emotional turmoil, Wendy showed the strength of character to carve her own way in the world.

From political journalism, she took her first tentative steps on Melbourne's tiny stages in comedy revue, then struck out as a solo performer in stand-up comedy. She would make her mark internationally before coming home to entertain Australians for four decades on stage, in print, television, and broadcasting.

In Lies My Mirror Told Me, Wendy reflects on her life - one of the most unlikely success stories you will ever read.

"This is what a trailblazer looks like. Wendy Harmer is both the irresistible force AND the immovable object." β€” Andrew Denton

"Deeply moving, wise, hilarious and raucous... there's so much to love in this book." β€” Amanda Keller

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781760112080

Publisher: Allen & Unwin

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 31 October 2023

Country: Australia

Imprint: Allen & Unwin

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Width: 153.0mm

Height: 234.0mm

Weight: 506g

Pages: 400

About the Author

Wendy Harmer is one of Australia's most versatile and much-loved entertainers - broadcaster, author, journalist and stage performer.

As a stand-up comedian she performed at the Melbourne, Edinburgh, Montreal and Glasgow Mayfest Comedy Festivals, on London's comedy circuit, throught the USA, and at the Sydney Theatre Company. As a broadcaster, Wendy enjoyed huge popularity leading Sydney radio station 2Day FM's top-rating Breakfast Show for 11 years and was the co-host of ABC Radio Sydney's morning/breakfast shows from 2016 -2021. She has hosted, written and appeared in a variety of TV shows including ABC's The Big Gig.


A prolific columnist for a host of magazine and newspaper titles, Wendy is also the author of eight books for adults including her bestselling novels Farewell My Ovaries, Love and Punishment and Nagging for Beginners, a 'how-to' guide for women. She has also written two teen novels and multiple books for children in the Pearlie in the Park series.

Wendy and her husband Brendan have two adult children, Marley and Maeve, and live on Sydney's Northern Beaches.

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