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The Sex Talk You Never Got

Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality
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Reclaim the joy of your God-given sexuality and become the man God created you to be.In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows you how to celebrate—instead of struggle against—the gift of... Read More
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Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed, leading to shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality. In The Sex Talk You Never Got, Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows readers how to celebrate--instead of struggle against--the gift of sexual desire.

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Reclaim the joy of your God-given sexuality and become the man God created you to be.

In The Sex Talk You Never Got, therapist Sam Jolman helps men reconnect their God-given sexuality with innocence, awe, and joy, and shows you how to celebrateinstead of struggle againstthe gift of sexual desire.

Men today are starved for sexual formation. They've been failed by parents, churches, and culture alike, leading to widespread shame, confusion, and brokenness in the area of sexuality.

But it doesn't need to be this way. In this biblically based, practical book, Sam Jolman, a professional therapist who specializes in men's issues and sexual trauma recovery, shows you the way out of the wilds of sexual struggle. The Sex Talk You Never Got will help you:

  • Regain a vigorous and vibrant sexuality within the context of God's design
  • Understand how purity culture has needlessly put men in a conflict-ridden relationship with their sexuality
  • Engage your own story of sexual formation to discover and heal what has brought harm
  • Confront porn use and lust through the lens of God's kindness and find the true path to freedom
  • Learn about the vital link between sexual desire and your identity as a worshiper
  • Trade shame and confusion for a sexuality of innocence and wonder

 

Whether you are married or single, The Sex Talk You Never Got will help you discover the joy of your God-given sexuality and invite you to celebrate—rather than struggle against—the gift of sexual desire.

Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781400243907

Publisher: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 18 July 2024

Country: United States

Imprint: Thomas Nelson Publishers

Contributors:

  • Foreword by John Eldredge
  • Foreword by John Eldredge

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 17.0mm

Width: 139.0mm

Height: 210.0mm

Weight: 262g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Sam Jolman is a professional therapist with over twenty years of experience. He specializes in men's issues and sexual trauma recovery. Being a therapist has given him a front row seat to hear thousands of men and women share their stories. His writing flows out of this unique opportunity to help men work through and understand their stories and find freedom from sexual trauma. He received his master's in counseling from Reformed Theological Seminary and was further trained in Narrative Focused Trauma Care by Dan Allender through the Allender Center at the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology. Sam lives in Colorado with his wife and three young sons--the people that inspire his writing. Together they enjoy exploring the best camping spots in Colorado in their pop-up camper. Sam goes to therapy, loves mountain biking, and can often be found trying to catch his breath on the floor of his local CrossFit gym.

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