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The Crying Book

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The Crying Book by Heather Christle is a poetic exploration of the act and meaning of crying. The author weaves together fragments from her personal life, scientific research, and cultural history to delve into emotions, grief, and the human condition. This memoir blends elements of poetry and essays for a moving and reflective meditation on tears.
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You might enjoy this book if you're intrigued by explorations of human emotion, as it weaves together personal anecdotes and cultural reflections on tears. Filled with both scientific insight and lyrical prose, it offers a poignant, thought-provoking journey on a universal human experience.

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Why do we cry? How do we cry? And what does it mean? A scientific, cultural, artistic examination by a young poet on the cusp of motherhood.

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'A deeply felt, and genuinely touching, book' Esme Weijun Wang, author of The Collected Schizophrenias

'Spellbinding and propulsive' Leni Zeumas, author of Red Clocks

The Crying Book is a rigorous and urgent work but it reads like an intimate gift' Kaveh Akbar, author of Calling a Wolf a Wolf

A DAZZLING MEDITATION ON TEARS

In this symphonic work of non-fiction, Heather Christle explores the most human of behaviours: crying. What are tears made of? Why do people cry? And why is this common, crucial act so rarely discussed? Christle unpacks the biological reasons for tears and investigates the influence of crying on art, politics, feminism, race and culture, all while opening up the intimate story of her own tears - from the suicide of her close friend to her family's history of depression, to her pregnancies, both planned and unplanned.

In these pages, we meet a feminist artist who designs a gun that shoots frozen tears. A moth that takes sustenance from feeding on the tears shed by other animals. And beautifully impractical devices for dealing with grief such as the 'lachrymatory', an ancient receptacle into which it was hoped 'a mourner could let fall her hot tears'. While Christle enchants us with poetic snippets on these subjects, a powerful investigation begins to accrue, examining how the history of tears is tied up with racist violence, with the stigma of mental illness, and with the ways in which glib contemporary images of motherhood fail to reckon with how rich and complicated it actually is.

Brilliant, witty and achingly honest, Christle's book creates a mosaic of science, history, culture and personal experience to find new ways of understanding life and loss. The Crying Book is a deeply intimate tribute to the fascinating strangeness of tears - and the unexpected resilience of joy.

Honest, intelligent, rapturous and surprising, The Crying Book is a poignant, personal tribute to the astonishing strangeness of tears and the startling resilience of joy.

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Heather Christle's The Crying Book is lauded for its shattering beauty and profound exploration of tears, blending personal reflections with cultural and scientific insights. Critics praise its lyrical prose and poignant examination of themes such as grief, joy, motherhood, and mental health. The book's hybrid nature, combining elements of poetry, memoir, and essay, results in an insightful and moving meditation that resonates deeply with readers, evoking emotions and sparking reflection on the shared human experience of crying.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781472154712

Publisher: Little, Brown Book Group

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 04 February 2021

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Corsair

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 22.0mm

Width: 124.0mm

Height: 196.0mm

Weight: 170g

Pages: 208

About the Author

Heather Christle is the author of the poetry collections The Difficult Farm; The Trees The Trees, which won the Believer Poetry Award; What Is Amazing; and Heliopause. Her poems have appeared in the New Yorker, London Review of Books, Poetry and many other journals. She teaches creative writing at Emory University in Atlanta. The Crying Book is her first book of non-fiction.

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