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Dating Sucks, but You Don't

The Modern Guy's Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and Finding the Perfect Partner
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Dating Sucks, but You Don't by Connell Barrett is a candid, humorous, and practical guide for men navigating the challenges of modern dating, especially in the #MeToo era. Grounded in the concept of 'radical authenticity,' this book empowers men to be their genuine selves, boosting confidence and magnetism without resorting to insincere tactics. It covers how to approach women confidently, spark meaningful chemistry, succeed on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, and build healthy relationships based on mutual love and respect.
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This book is ideal for single men seeking practical, respectful, and confidence-building advice in dating and relationships. It particularly suits those interested in authentic self-expression and modern dating challenges, including app dating and overcoming social anxieties.

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Dating Sucks, but You Don't

From a renowned international dating coach, an essential relationship self-help book for single men looking to gain confidence and find lasting love in the #MeToo era.

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From renowned international dating coach comes a “smart, funny, classy, and practical” (Mike Sacks, editor at Vanity Fair) dating guide for men looking to gain confidence and find lasting love in the #MeToo era.

Rejection. Ghosting. Not knowing how to talk to women. For many men, dating just sucks. But it doesn’t have to. There’s a simple yet powerful way to gain instant confidence and attract a great girlfriend: be authentic.

Whether you want to confidently approach women, get quality matches on dating apps, or learn how to avoid the “friend zone,” Dating Sucks, but You Don’t is your “must-read” (Mike Johnson, bestselling author of Make the Love You Want) step-by-step blueprint for landing your soulmate.

Using the power of “radical authenticity,” you’ll unlock your most awesome self and learn how to:

  • Be magnetic as you…even if you’re not rich, tall, or great looking
  • Always know what to say to ignite chemistry
  • Get dates and connect with great women without using creepy “pickup artist” tricks
  • Conquer fear and anxiety and confidently approach women (in a way they love)
  • Get great matches and dates on Tinder, Bumble, Match, Hinge, or any other dating app
  • Create a healthy, supportive relationship with someone who loves you for you

You definitely don’t suck. And when you have confidence and great results, neither does dating—especially with the right love and relationship advice built especially for men.

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Praised for its smart, funny, and classy approach, Dating Sucks, but You Don't is acclaimed by Mike Sacks of Vanity Fair as a transforming read that avoids clichéd pickup routines. Ione Butler appreciates its emphasis on true authenticity as the key to attraction, while Brian Howie calls it eloquent and empowering for understanding both men and women in the quest for love. Karen Salmansohn highlights its appeal to good-hearted men seeking honest and successful partnerships.

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INFORMATION

ISBN: 9781982159146

Publisher: Simon & Schuster

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 18 August 2022

Country: United States

Imprint: Simon Element

Illustration: 11 b&w photos & charts thru-out

Audience: General / adult

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 18.0mm

Width: 140.0mm

Height: 213.0mm

Weight: 238g

Pages: 256

About the Author

Connell Barrett is the founder of Dating Transformation, where he serves as an international coach who helps guys connect with women by unlocking their best, true, most confident selves. Connell has appeared on shows such as Access Hollywood, the Today show, and Good Morning LA, and in many magazines, including Best LifeCosmopolitanOprah Daily, and Playboy. He’s also a dating coach for The League—a swiping app aimed at high-achievers—and an advisor for AskMen and EliteDaily. And in 2019 Datezie.com named him “New York City’s Best Male Dating Coach.” Connell was formerly an Executive Editor at Sports Illustrated, and he has written for EsquireMen’s Journal, and Salon. He lives and works in New York City. Learn more about him at DatingTransformation.com.

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