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A Different Sort of Normal

A real-life completely true story about being unique
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A Different Sort of Normal by Abigail Balfe is a charming and insightful children's book that delves into the unique experiences of growing up neurodivergent. It artfully combines humour and honesty as it explores the challenges and joys of understanding one's identity and finding a place in a world that often defines "normal" in a narrow way. Through personal anecdotes and engaging illustrations, the story encourages young readers to embrace their individuality.
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You might enjoy this book if you're looking for a heartfelt and insightful read into the life of a young autistic girl trying to understand her differences and find her place in the world. The blend of personal storytelling and engaging illustrations makes it a perfect choice for young readers interested in themes of diversity, acceptance, and self-discovery.

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The beautiful, and beautifully illustrated, true story of one girl's journey growing up autistic, and the challenges of navigating the 'normal' world around her.

I'm not like the other children in my class . . . and that's an actual scientific FACT.

Hi! My name is Abigail and I'm autistic.

But when I was a child I didn't know I was autistic. In fact, it wasn't until I was in my thirties that I discovered my neurodivergence and my life finally started to make sense.

This book follows my journey of self-discovery from childhood through adulthood, as I attempt to navigate the confusing world around me—a world predominantly built for neurotypical brains.

In this book you'll find:

  • VERY IMPORTANT FACTS about neurodiversity, neurodivergence, autistic traits, autism and gender, sensory sensitivities, social communication, emotions, friendships, bullying, sensory overload, meltdowns, family, school, special interests, masking, puberty, AND MORE.
  • VERY PERSONAL STORIES involving toilets, cats, poo, swimming pools, my ridiculous family, my slightly unusual way of trying to make friends, falling up the French stairs wearing a skirt, getting locked in a cinema overnight, and MORE embarrassing (and often hilarious) moments like these...
  • PLUS TIPS for supporting the neurodivergent people in your life, advocating for your own needs as a neurodivergent person, and learning to embrace what makes you different.

It's for children. It's for adults. It's for neurodivergent people. It's for neurotypical people. It's for parents, carers, siblings, teachers, librarians, psychiatrists, doctors, nurses—and everyone else too.

Basically—it's for you.

EXTRA IMPORTANT AND LITTLE KNOWN FACT — A Different Sort of Normal is also indirectly a story about growing up as an auDHD person—because nearly a year after this book was published, I received my ADHD diagnosis.

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A Different Sort of Normal by Abigail Balfe is widely praised for its engaging, humorous, and informative portrayal of growing up autistic without a diagnosis. Reviewers appreciate its delightful illustrations and blend of personal anecdotes and factual insights, describing it as an essential and empathetic read for readers of all ages. The book is celebrated for its ability to shatter misconceptions about autism while offering comfort and understanding, often termed as a must-have resource for neurodivergent individuals and their families.

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Book Details

INFORMATION

ISBN: 9780241508794

Publisher: Penguin Random House Children's UK

Format: Paperback / softback

Date Published: 22 July 2021

Country: United Kingdom

Imprint: Puffin

Contributors:

  • Illustrated by Abigail Balfe

Audience: Children

DIMENSIONS

Spine width: 20.0mm

Width: 154.0mm

Height: 230.0mm

Weight: 438g

Pages: 240

About the Author

Abigail Balfe (Author, Illustrator) Abigail is a Brighton-based writer, illustrator and creative producer. Original storytelling has always been at the heart of Abigail's career and she has spent a decade leading social media campaigns for some of the biggest TV & entertainment clients in the world. Abigail also used to perform stand-up comedy and won several tiny trophies for her onstage humour; which involved life-size illustrations, ridiculous songs and rambling stories about her family.

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